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Minding My Head & Eating Bara Wo in Bhaktapur

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 24, 2014
Posted in: Divas, society, Spirituality, world affairs. Tagged: Architecture, Art, Bhaktapur, Bhaktapur Durbar Square, culture, nepal, Photo, Photography, tour, travel. Leave a comment

Guys, as you know, i’m not idle even when i’m not ‘working’. 😀 Therefore, i’d like to take you on a cultural tour of Bhaktapur. A UNESCO World Heritage Site, Bhaktapur used to be called Bhadgaon in the past – a nation in itself. The Newari Civilization is still alive and thriving in Bhaktapur. The beauty of the Newari Civilization is that it’s one the very few living civilizations in the world which excels in art, architecture and culture. That’s precisely why the Gorkhalis readily adopted the Newari Civilization as their own after unifying Nepal.

In fact, the Kathmandu Valley Civilizations had learned long ago what Nepal as a country is still trying to learn: that the region lies in both the geographical & cultural fault lines. But, i find the caste-system n intricate family structure a bit cumbersome for the changing times. Btw, remember that i took the pics below in several days of wandering through the Bhaktapur streets, so don’t expect to find them all in one or half day’s tour.

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On the outskirts of Bhaktapur met two kids. They were happy to pose for me. After taking their pic, I told them: when you’ll grow up, you’ll see your pic on the net. N they replied: we already surf the net. Oh my, the new generation is really ahead of me. Then they asked me 5 rupees each… hahaha… Just yesterday, Biplav Man Singh, who writes on economic issues, reflected on Facebook: we used to be happy with small things when we were kids, why can’t we be happy like that now?

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Bhaktapur Durbar Square: a well-known site for the tourists n locals alike

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Last Saturday, this friendly looking German guy approached me. Works as an educational consultant cum tour guide.  After more than a year of living, he’s now a ‘local’ in Bhaktapur – from his dress-up and hairstyle to his smile and the red Teeka on his forehead. He also familiarized me with a few temples n buildings there.

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The heart of the Durbar Square, on the right is a typical Pagoda style temple

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This temple in front of Nyatpol is also a Pagoda style with a little modification. People say that you’ll see the influence of this type of architecture even in China. After all, Arniko had taken the Newari architecture to China long ago.

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However, this beautiful stone temple is very different in its architecture from other surrounding temples n buildings. I’ve seen this type temple mostly in South & West India. Also in Varanasi.

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The Durbar Square Area is full of tourists almost everyday. Some tourists from Europe. The German guy said they’re from Italy.

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Hippie guys. i liked the way they were sitting on the Chidi of a narrow alley..

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The Pottery Square: she’s grinding spices manually as she inherited the art from her mom..

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Another example of the combination of art n work: an old man revolving his pottery wheel manually..

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Lemme show you my art of making pots, kid!

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Gandhi’s Inspiration: Making threads from a spinning wheel manually…

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A man enjoying his hookah: i’m my own King

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Tourist kids enjoying themselves…

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Feeling Hungry? Why not try the Newari Bara Wo? Like the French, the Newars are also proud of their culinary varieties.

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N this place does not even look like an eatery or a restaurant. It looks like the kitchen of a home.

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 there you see, mom’s giving yummy Bara-Wo with gram soup to me. Besides being nourishing n tasty, they’re really cheap here in comparison to other places..

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The next day, a hippie guy sneaked in n sat beside me.  i’ve found that generally people who live n travel alone are friendly, happy n open. This guy is from Chile, South America. Kids, do you remember your GK class ? Which country has a shape like an elephant tusk? Yes, Chile. n we started comparing our beards. 😀

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However, if you think that tourists in Nepal come only from Europe and America, you’re mistaken. The gal with gogs on her head is from India. 😉

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n they’re from China.. 😉

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NO PHOTOS: hahaha 😀

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Mind your Head: A notice on the door of a Thangka Shop. The doors in Bhaktapur houses are generally low in height..

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A Granda Pa playing with his granchild: btw, who do you think is a kid?

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I’d seen this man some 10 years ago…he’s still on the same place selling the same Sandheko or spiced fruits with the same enthusiasm

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Like a human being, every tree is an individual.. this one is thinner on the lower side..

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Last but not least: no one should forget that Nepal is a Multi-Cultural country.

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Individual’s Inward Quest for Self: The Only Antidote to Humanity’s Collective Madness For Power

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 22, 2014
Posted in: conflict analysis, Divas, freedom, psychology, society, Spirituality, world affairs. Tagged: Individual and Social Harmony, peace, racism, war, World Peace. Leave a comment

By Divas

Siddhartha’s insistence on quest for self defying all doctrines and teachings does not mean that Hesse wished to propound any sort of anarchism against the society. In fact, Hesse believed that only through some sort of individualism each individual can be made responsible for his actions.

Hesse may sound just another romantic preacher; however, in a world mired by deadly ideologies seeking justifications from Jesus to Nietzsche, and to Marx, Hesse’s concerns would hardly need any justification.

Siddhartha was born in the aftermath of the World War I and another great World War loomed large. Hesse through his allegorical message in Siddhartha makes an anxious call to the youths for defiance against growing material and military pursuits.

Similarly, Hesse was also concerned over the individual’s predicament in the capitalism driven modernity. The collapse of the whole European civilization seemed imminent due to rising political, cultural, and ideological conflicts. At the time of chaos in the Western Civilization’s history, Hesse turns to the East in search of fresh ideas and values.

However, an individual can only be persuaded to turn inward when he realizes the futility of worldly pursuits of having power over others. The need to control and manipulate the outer world only evaporates when one recognizes that his existence as a being is relatively negligible in comparison to the vastness of the spatial and temporal dimensions of the universe.

Therefore, through the excessive individualism of his protagonists like Siddhartha, Hesse as an eye-witness of the greatest human conflicts such as the World War I and World War II seems to be searching for an alternative society among the people divided into various ideological, religious and communal identities.

Hesse saw that despite humankind’s tremendous accumulation of knowledge and prosperity the sheer disregard for diversity was leading the world toward perpetual conflicts. The duality of existence as in the mind and the real world and their address in various spiritual disciplines, the visits to psychoanalysis lessons, and subsequent profound interest in Freudian and especially in Jungian psychology were to influence him the most to arrive at his premises.

Hesse seems to realize that extreme nationalism and the desire to have power over others result in millions of innocent death and innumerable sufferings. In Siddhartha, Hesse creates a utopian world where power and wealth are ephemeral pursuits and chasing after them being an act of utter foolishness. Thus Siddhartha can be seen as Hesse’s antithesis to collectivist tendencies in the form of nationalist, racial, cultural, and ideological doctrines, and an effort to establish the individual’s inward quest for self as beneficial to both the individual and the society.

However, Hesse knew how calls for peace would only be taken as quixotic idealism. He also knew that he would not be able to stop the next war that was sure to happen. Hesse seems to profess his belief that a true hero is not someone who dies in war or kills a fellow being, but one who synchronizes the conflicting tendencies present within himself.

Siddhartha proves that the secret of life can not be taught by any teacher, nor by following any dogma, but can only be known through the individual’s own inward journey into the self. Siddhartha also shows that initial disobedience that a self-willed person shows against authorial power is far more responsible than the sheepish conformity with respect to the universal law of humanity.

Hesse’s ideal back to nature world of Siddhartha may also be been seen as another flawed utopia. However, the creation of utopia, no matter how flawed it may, was nevertheless a deliberate attempt. For Hesse, it was necessary to create such a utopic world as the devastations of the World War I were not over yet, and the possibility of even a greater war seemed imminent.

To persuade his countrymen and the whole humanity against committing yet another civilizational blunder, Hesse wished to develop a new social movement himself. To dissuade the youths from the Nazi, Fascist and war calls other political clouts, it was necessary to detach their attention from politics of ideologies, militarism and nationalism.

Hesse believed that the individual will should not identify itself with the collective will of the society or the nation. Thus, it was necessary to turn the youths’ attention toward a very different culture than their own. Resorting to different Eastern concepts in Siddhartha seems to be just an excuse for Hesse to adapt Nietzschean amor fati or “will to power” into his own form of Eugensinn or self-will, so that individuals could be persuaded to take inward journey to self. However, Hesse wanted to emphasize that the Nietzchean concept of “will to power” referred to the will of an individual to have power over his own destiny, but not to have power over others.

It was important for Hesse to elaborate Nietzsche’s ideas, as the Anti-Semites, the Nazis, and other authoritarians were distorting Nietzsche’s philosophy for their bigotry. Siddhartha may be seen as a truly Nietzschean model of Ubermensch or Superman who does not follow any doctrine blindly, but dares for an inward search to find the true nature of his self.

The concept of Superman was Nietzsche’s call for the individuals to achieve their ultimate potential, but not for groups, parties, nations and epochs. Hence, through Siddhartha’s personal journey of seeking his self and realizing his potential, Hesse points out that perfection in world comes only when each individual establishes harmony with his own self.

Hesse’s persistent concern is to find an escape for the individual from not only the societal bondage but also from one’s own dual and conflicting tendencies. Hesse believed that outer conflict was only the manifestation of the conflicting instinctual drives within every individual.

Hence, Hesse found it necessary to convince each individual to understand their own nature through intense self-examination and synchronize the polar opposites within themselves into a harmonious unity.

Once an individual is persuaded to delve into the study of his own self, the desire to gain control over others would soon evaporate. Experimenting with one’s own body and mind has been a favorite intellectual and spiritual activity of the ancient Orientals.

In Siddhartha, Hesse makes his affluent and yet discontented Western readers travel through time and space to learn how the people from a distant past and distant culture with so little material possession had invented for every individual a way of happy and peaceful existence.

Thus, Siddhartha’s extreme individuality can be seen as Hesse’s method as well as belief in human capacity for self-cure without any external interference – and for Hesse self-cure was the only cure for treating the whole humanity’s suffering.

The rising confrontations between various forms of ideologies persuaded Hesse to profess his own version individualism with the belief that individuals who join the masses lose their rational faculties. It should be noted that Hesse is not making any authoritative elaboration or comparison of diverse concepts he borrows from both the Eastern and Western traditions in Siddhartha.

From Atman to Brahman, from Buddha to Nietzsche, from psychology to mysticism, and from search for self to enlightenment, Hesse uses all these concepts as devices to demonstrate how the individual’s Eugensinn or self-will can be used to create a more harmonious society by reconciling the conflicting tendencies within every individual. Siddhartha shows that the world outside is not a hindrance but a succor in one’s efforts for self-actualization.

In the initial days, when Siddhartha seeks for the mystery of his self as separated and different from others, he realizes that he is in fact fleeing from what he seeks – self-knowledge. The more Siddhartha grows toward enlightenment, more he identifies with other fellow beings thus expanding his empathy for others.

Thus, even through intense self-will and individualism, Siddhartha ultimately learns to appreciate unity in the plurality of existence. It should be noted that by his denial of following Buddha, Siddhartha is not undermining Buddha’s achievement.

Siddhartha, by looking beyond Buddha’s reputation, simply conveys Hesse’s message that wisdom is not communicable through words and doctrines. The only doctrine of love than Siddhartha professes after his enlightenment was Hesse’s call for humanity to appreciate their fellow beings instead of making war citing ideological, racial, and cultural differences.

Through Siddhartha’s denial of all doctrines, Hesse persuades each individual to be independent thinkers and arrive at a conclusion based on their own individual experience. Siddhartha’s ultimate enlightenment transcending all sufferings and with perpetual bliss certainly seem like a utopist’s dream.

Despite its utopic vision, Siddhartha offers hope for humanity, a hope between the two greatest World Wars that threatened the very survival of the human existence. Through the protagonist’s extreme individualism in quest for self and enlightenment, Hesse creates a utopic worldview in Siddhartha to prove his proposition that an individual’s inward quest for self is the only antidote to humanity’s collective madness for power.

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Harmonious Self for a Harmonious World

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 21, 2014
Posted in: conflict analysis, Divas, freedom, psychology, Spirituality, world affairs. Tagged: Individual and Social Harmony, Interfaith Harmony, peace, war, World Peace. Leave a comment

If you’re interested to read my complete thesis on how to make peace and harmony in the world, download the following pdf file:

Harmonious Self for a Harmonious World

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silence is the best communication..

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 20, 2014
Posted in: Divas, psychology, society, Spirituality, world affairs. Tagged: Communication, Language. 1 Comment

Language

language never really communicates…

coz no two people speak the same language…

therefore, silence is the best communication..

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Why I Support Barack & ObamaCare

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 12, 2014
Posted in: Divas, world affairs. Tagged: Barack Obama, Healthcare, Insurance, Obamacare, Public Policy. Leave a comment

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By Divas

Guys, perhaps you don’t know that i’m one of the unofficial Obama Team consultants. Since i’m also interested in public health issues, some of Barack’s people are asking me to show my solidarity publicly with Barack on his ObamaCare.

Well, it’s true that i admire Barack – especially for his spontaneity and friendliness.

That Barack is the President of the United States is itself a phenomenon in the history of mankind.

Those who’re fond of digging into history know it well that I’m not exaggerating.

Still, you guys know that I do not support any policy blindly, even if it were Barack’s.

 I may also disagree with the presidents of the United States on many issues especially on foreign policy and on their military strategies as well as nuclear programs.

Yet, I do feel like supporting Barack on his social security programs, including the ObamaCare.

What’s ObamaCare?

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ObamaCare or legally the Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act (PPACA) commonly called the Affordable Care Act (ACA) was enacted in 2010 with the goals of increasing the quality and affordability of health insurance.

The law requires all Americans have health insurance by 2014 or pay a per month fee for each month without coverage.

The new health care law makes Health insurance available to most uninsured low and middle income individuals through a health insurance exchange also known as a health insurance marketplace.

I don’t want to go into the technical details, I myself don’t know many of the technical aspects, and you can find everything on the net.

Moreover, there’s also a fierce debate going on for & against ObamaCare’s affordability & efficacy.

Whatever, I just wanna say something about the philosophy behind it.

It’s based on the philosophy that it’s the government’s responsibility to make the basic services like healthcare affordable for its citizen – especially for the lower income people – and it should not be left at the mercy of market alone.

And that’s the philosophy of people like us who passionately believe in that no one should go astray in want of basic needs & services.

Ironically, although US is a rich country and a world leader in many aspects, especially in nuclear arms(satire intended), US governments so far have been among the most irresponsible governments when it comes to look after their own people.

And there’s where i support Barack on his domestic policy.

I’ve been suggesting US governments for a long time that instead of wasting their time & energy in manipulative foreign policy based on attacks & paranoia, the US policy makers should rather focus on domestic policies and in the well-being of American people.

And Barack seems to be doing the same, despite his limitations.

For example, look at the following ObamaCare policies – which could be a guideline for the governments and policy makers of other countries as well.

ObamaCare at a glance:

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* Free preventive care, including check-ups and vaccinations

* Money back if your insurance company doesn’t spend at least 80% of your premium on care

* No more lifetime limits on how much your insurance company will pay for

* Children and young adults can stay on their family plans until they turn 26

Moreover, look at some specific healthcare benefits they promise:

No Denials: You can’t be denied coverage, regardless of your health.

Preventive Care: Go ahead, get that checkup or vaccine — thanks to ObamaCare, preventive services are no cost to you.

Maternity and newborn care: Is your family getting bigger? ObamaCare will keep you and your bundle of joy covered.

Pediatric Care: Their care is covered, including vision and dental.

Emergency care: With ObamaCare, any emergency room visits are covered.

Prescriptions: Your health care plan must now cover prescription drugs.

Women’s Health: You won’t be charged more just because you are a woman.

Financial Assistance: You may qualify for financial assistance to help you pay for your plan.

Mammogram & Contraception: You’ll no longer have to pay out of pocket for a mammogram or contraception.

Rehabilitation: ObamaCare will help cover your rehabilitation if you get injured.

So, for a quixotic & utopian person like me, it’s but natural that i support Barack & his team’s ObamaCare.

And i don’t understand why some critics still claim that ObamaCare is a false promise.

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breathing is good…

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on January 8, 2014
Posted in: Divas, society. Tagged: Air pollution, children, climate, environment, Health, School. Leave a comment

feels so good to breathe

just to breathe in & breathe out

the fresh air

what a luxury

^_^ — Divas

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At Dad’s House

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on May 22, 2013
Posted in: Divas. 2 Comments

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Many of my well-wishers are concerned where I’m these days and what I’m doing… cheer up guys, no need to worry for me… 😆 I’m at dad’s house these days… n old boy is happy to see me after so many days… besides other things, i also need to make some relevant documents…

I’ve also changed my avatar again… You may not recognize me if you’re looking for a Divas with a long hair and a long beard..

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In the Pursuit of becoming a Holy Man

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on May 12, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: india, Meditation, spirituality, travel. 3 Comments

Update: Guys, I’m back to Nepal. It began raining cats & dogs when I reached Dharmashala. That means monsoon rains are coming. Also got cold diarhea. Was also not feeling well physically. That means time to rest.

Many people in India must be taking a sigh of relief that I’m back to Nepal finally. But plz note that I’ll keep on visiting India again & again. 😆 I still have to see many parts of India.

When I was entering Nepal, a staff at the border asked: Are you Indian or Nepali? Officially, I’m a Nepali citizen coz you’re supposed to have a country. Otherwise, I feel like I’ve gone beyond all traditional definitions.

Since I’m not making any notes these days, i’m posting everything from memory in short.

* A Meeting with the Kabir Panthees – Visited the Kabir Ashram in Dhaulpur, Rajasthan and stayed for a day there. Amrit Sahib is really a learned as well as spiritually grown person. See guys, my contact with spiritual people is growing, and they all want me to join them. He also explained that Kabir Panth is in the middle between the Argumentative Bramhans and the Silent Buddhists.

* People in Rajasthan respect the holimen a lot. Many people did me Namaste seeing my holy robes. And at the Ashram, not only the young people, but even a man older than my dad touched my feet.  Guys, looks like I’m also becoming a holy man… After all, many people since my childhood have been predicting than I’d be a holy man.  😆

* Met a soldier from Andhra Pradesh on the train. He was very friendly with me. He was also a devout Christian. It was a bit revealing for me that a person with a traditional Sanskrit name could also be a devout Christian who reads Bible before going to bed every night. He was also a very funny man. ‘You know, while I was reading the Bible, I felt an urge for sex’ he said. I told him to go to the toilet and release himself. He said: ‘No, I’m going to home now. I’ll release it with my wife.’

* Another incident I forgot to mention: It was the Holi festival when I arrived in Bodh Gaya. A policeman gave me a lift for about 4 Kms. See guys, everyone wants to help me to achieve what I want. After all, it’s going to benefit the whole humanity.

*Ajmer: I found Ajmer more interesting than mentioned by the guides book, especially around the Lake area. And contrary to the traditional sounding name, the Ajmeris are a fashion concious people.

* Taj Mahal: The Taj Mahal in Agra is worth all the hype. I especially enjoyed the resonating sound made by passing air inside the main building.

* Pushkar: Pushkar is really a quiet place surrounded by the desert mountains. A lesson to learn from Pushkar is that they have built a system of providing drinking water at various points.

* Right now I’m in Dharmashala. Will meditate if got an opportunity, otherwise will move further.

* After travelling this much, I’ve sensed that India takes security issues very seriously. So to undertand India, you must understand it’s security concerns. And that’s understandable. I’ve also sensed that security people are a bit concerned over my motive of travelling.  They need not. India has been my second home since my childhood.

* Some people are wondering why I’m travelling like this. Guys, I’m not only travelling, I’m also becoming a travel expert on India. And that could be my next profession.

* A Note: May be I won’t blog for a long time. As I’ve said earlier, thinking interferes with meditation. So, please visit at your own risk. 😉

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Of Meditation and Meditations in India…

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on May 5, 2013
Posted in: nepal. Tagged: india, spirituality, travel. Leave a comment

Was into meditation again… but as long as I write blog columns, it’ll be difficult for me to do the concentration part of meditation…coz thinking interferes with concentration…moreover, thinking for blogging is also interefering with my other pursuits here… moreover, finding a cyber is really difficult… so,  i’m ‘thinking’ of discontinuing blogging…so, don’t miss me guys, if you don’t see an update..

while meditating i see it vividly that i’m not a being but all the time i’m becoming… every moment the world is becoming and i’m also becoming…  and i also see how people invite misery for themselves out of ignorance…  personally, i’m happy, so i don’t need to meditate for personal reasons…but i admit that i still have to grow more spiritually…

A well-wisher colleague had once suggested that instead of blogging i should write books…i think i should also ponder over his idea… or may be i should write travelogues for magazines…that way i would also make some money for survival…

I’m amused to find that so many people in India are willing to help me… some have even given there adresses and have asked to contact them whenever i needed any help…

An interesting event: A man suggested that I should change my surname to a more polite one… coz it shows my ‘bramhinistic arrogance’…In fact, often I also find my surname a bit uncomfortable, although i’ve to use it that way officially…… so, in the Facebook, I’ve again changed my name to Divas Sapiens…

Even in India many people are wondering what course i’d take further… whether i’ll be social or i’ll take even more individualistic way…

A few people have suggested that a highly individualistic person like me should go to the Badri area and meditate there…they say that there’re many places and people like me there…but I’ve still to see many parts of India before that…

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Divas In the Pink City of Jaipur

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on April 24, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: india, Jaipur, travel. Leave a comment

The Hawa Mahal(Pic from the net)

Arrived at the Jaipur Railway Station.

Was having some stomach problem for the past few days.

So was looking for a toilet to evacuate the bowel contents. 😆

A police personnel of South Indian origin asked if he could help.

Told him that I was looking for a toilet.

And he took me to the toilet himself.

I was really impressed.

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Later when I was lying outside near the ticket counter, the Tickect Checker or TT came with a few police personnel and demanded for the ticket.

Actually, sometimes I do cheat while on travelling on the train 😆 – for various reasons. Sometimes the line is too  long, sometimes when I’ve a weak stomach, and sometimes when I’m in a hurry. And sometimes just for the sake of fun – as the foreign tourists say.

However, when the TT catches me red-hand, I do pay the fines. And that’s much more than travelling with a ticket. But this time I didn’t feel like paying. So, I made some excuses. Coz I’d arrived Jaipur by hanging on the door, and many times i felt like it might be my last moment. So, instead of paying the fines, I thought it better to enjoy their scoldings. 😆

The Railways authorities should increase the number of general or the II class bogies. Most of times the II class bogies are so crowded that it’s suffocating, especially during the summer months.

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On Varanasi Experience: Looks like the real Sadhu Babas were not against me in Varanasi. Actually,  I’ve sensed that many people including the real Sadhu Babas want to help me. Looks like the Ghat authorities and the people who make a living out of it were unhappy with me. Coz I’d made a comment on improving the Ghat for the pilgrims.

Next time when I’ll be in Varanasi, I’ll spend my time on some isolated Ghat.

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Jaipur is  really a ‘Pink City’. Perhaps, the Pink City is the most beautiful planned settlement in India – in terms of architectural beauty.  But, I didn’t know that Jaipur is also the capital city of Rajasthan. It’s also one of the major tourist destination in India.

An interesting incident: When I was standing in front of the Hawa Mahal, a Chinese looking female tourist (I call her Chinese coz she said ‘Nee-How’, I think that the ‘Namaste’ in Chinese) asked through gestures if she could take my picture. I was really amused. She was interested in one of the most narcissistic persons of our times. So I gave her a really philosophic pose. And she was happy to take my picture.

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Moving Away from Varanasi

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on April 22, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: india, multiculturalism, society, travel. Leave a comment

Pic from the net

Yesterday, a Naga Baba asked me to sit beside him. ‘I’ve been trying to talk to you for so many days, but you don’t pay attention to me. Are you angry with me?’ he asked smilingly. Actually, I don’t pay attention to anyone, unless I think it’s necessary.

Naga Babas are generally friendlier than other Babas. They ‘re also natural in their lifestyle. ‘Wanna take some chilum(marijuana)?’ he asked. I might have given company to Baba by taking one or more puffs, but I don’t know how to smoke from a chilum. So, I said no.

In fact, I don’t feel like taking any intoxicant. Why take any intoxicant when you’re already happy naturally? But people are people. Sometimes people insist for cultural reasons & also to show camaraderie  –  so sometimes I do take a few sips of alcohol for social reasons. But I neither drink nor smoke nor take any intoxicants. These days, I take only my anti-hypertensive medication, and my hypertension is inherited, not acquired.

Then another man came & asked Naga Baba a few questions on awakening the Kundalini. The Naga Baba was honest. He said that he’s been trying to awaken his Kundalini through Bhajans but hasn’t been successful yet.

I’ve also increased my meditation hours. While meditating I focus on sensations all over the body. Yesterday morning I felt like my Nabhi Chakra was active for some time.

Looks like cultural tensions much higher in India that I’d previously thought. I was enjoying my time in Varanasi and the people also seem to have accepted me. But some Sadhu Babas are unhappy with me coz I don’t follow their ways. So, I’m thinking of moving to some other place.

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What Divas is Doing in India?

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on April 20, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: culture, india, spirituality, travel. 4 Comments

You guys might be wondering where I’m these days and what I’m doing. Well, I’m still at Varanasi. This place has been able to keep me here for several days. And for many reasons.

Varanasi, especially the Ghats around the Ganges, is a place for eccentric people like me. Even culturally you don’t feel an outsider here. In fact, I was a bit surprized to meet two Jyapu teachers from Bhaktapur Bode in the Nepali Dharmashala during my first visit. And the place is also filled with tourists from all over the world. Hence, the place is generally tolerant of unknown people. In fact, it’s a multi-cultural world.

You can swim in the Ganges whole day long and free of cost. 😆 The Ganges here is quiet and wide, and it remind you of Sholokhov’s ‘Quiet Flows the Don’.  And I’m amused when I hear boatmen shouting: Par Jaaoge?(Wanna go the  Other side?). Do they really understand what they’re saying?

I’m always around the Ghats, that too nearby Dashaswamedh Ghat. In the morning I sit on a cool berendah of a closed shop. Since it’s hot in the afternoon, I find a shaded place a sit there. Surfing the net is also easier here. Foods are also comparatively cheaper. And most importantly, you can sleep on the Ghats free of cost.

Although I don’t speak with anyone, I think people have begun recognising me.  Even the security people are aware of me. A security personnel checked my hand bag the day before yesterday. And yesterday, another security personnel in plain clothes and with a sniffer dog checked my backpack. But they were very decent with me. I guess security people also know that I’m in India as a special guest of  President Mukherjee and PM Singh. 😆 They just wanna make  it sure that I don’t take a ‘wrong’ way. And I see them working really hard for my safety. Good job, guys! 😉

Yesteday, I ate a free meal for the first time. I was roaming around looking for some cheap place to eat, and saw that ‘free meal’ or ‘Prasad’ was being distributed in front of the Biswonath Temple. Later I came to know that since it’s a Prasad, everyone takes it. And although I don’t participate in the rituals, I also enjoy eating Prasad. 😆

I’m trying to keep my cost of living to a minimum. I eat basic foods like Idli, Puri, etc to save money. And I’ve started to drink plain tap water. In this way I can go on for a long time, even without begging. 😆

And I’ve become even more introvert. Looks like I’m still ‘angry’ with some people from my past for their ‘unfair’ treatment, although I don’t get emotional. I avoid speaking as far as possible. I just wish people didn’t talk to me out of their curiosity. Coz speaking interferes with my observation. I’m thinking of hanging a placard on my neck with the message: Silence Please’.

In short, I’m happier and even more peaceful.

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Do the symbols of Ardha-Nariswar or Ying-Yang Portray a Complete Harmony in the Individual & in the Society?

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on April 17, 2013
Posted in: Divas, Spirituality. Tagged: india, Individual and Social Harmony, travel. Leave a comment

ardhanareeswara    Ying Yang

I’d like to discuss more on my Mizoram experience. Like most of North-East India, Mizoram is also a matriarchal society. Personally, I also favor matriarchy over patriarchy. That’s coz matriarchy is based on love and patriarchy is based on force. And most of the times I favor love over force.

But, the problem with Mizoram seems to be the same – it’s a matriarchal society controlled by a patriarchal center. Moreover, matriarchy alone does not seem to create complete harmony in the society. Women too are attached to men through various relationships – as sons, brothers, spouses, friends, and in many other forms. And, often women too are forced to be ‘manipulative.’ Hence, women too are not always right.

Moreover, sometimes force is also necessary – although with a benevolent purpose. For example, as we see in the animal kingdom, often even mothers need to use force to save her babies from the predators.

So, for a complete harmony both in the individual and in the society, a right combination or fusion is necessary – both of love and force. Perhaps, that’s what Swami Ananda was also signalling by portraying himself as a ‘Ardha-Nariswar'(a harmonious combination of both the male & female elements) . And,  I think the symbol of Ying-Yang also expresses the same combination. But, one must have a spiritual inclination to be able to use these ideas properly. And remember, when I say spiritual, I don’t mean religious.

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Impressions of an India Traveller (With some more insights)

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on April 1, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: Ganges, india, Nature, The Art of Living, travel, Varanasi. 3 Comments

Guys, looks like i’ll disappear again for my inner journey, you people gonna miss me again. So, I’m writing some of my experiences so far in short.

Btw guys, I’m not into begging yet! In fact, I’d to pay double for the breakfast this morning also owing to my ‘foreigner’ get up.

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One suggestion for everyone travelling to India: If you’re a budget traveller, be careful if someone approaches you for any ‘help’. Most of the times they will try to extract money from you.

Two suggestion for Varanasi Municipality: provide enough clean & safe drinking water and clean the moss on the ghats. Many people fall into the water due to the slippery ghats. Yesterday, a girl slipped and nearly drowned. Thanks to a man nearby her, she was saved. Also construct enough comfortable public toilets – for both sexes.

Thousands of pilgrims and tourists come to Varanasi everyday. And you guys make lots of bucks from them. Shame on you if you don’t make things better for the visitors.

However, remember that I’m not a cynic. Despite it beings a town of ‘crooks’, security is good in Varanasi – I’ve been sleeping on the Ghat for the last 3 days without any problem.

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Can’t post my own photos, coz although I have a mobile, it doesn’t work.

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A fellow traveller on the train exclaimed: ‘If you’re scared of crowds, you’ll never get ahead.’ And that’s the wisdom that can come only from a second class train traveler.
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Prof. Easweran of the Mizoram Unitversity was initially so impressed with me that he even promised to provide recommendation for further studies. But, he was a bit put off when he learned that  although I see things with a spiritual outlook but I’m not into ‘religious’ things. Sorry, Dear Prof., I don’t need any recommendations with strings attached to it.
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When I was going  to Darjeeling from NJP, the young ‘humanist’ soldier from Sikkim looked at my saffron colored handbag and said: It’s cold in Darjeeling.

In Darjeeling, an anxious looking man approached me and said in Hindi: Dost, pardon me if I disturbed you. But I saw you eating Roti at Dolly Didi’s place, and I see you again. So, I felt like talking to you. I hope you won’t mind.’

We shook hands, looked into each others eyes, and smiled.

Like in other parts of the North-East, cultural tensions are high in Darjeeling as well.

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A couple were teaching their girl how to swim. The girl was scared. The parents insisted on taking a dip. I was observing them. They noticed that I was observing them. Then they looked at me and laughed. I also laughed.

But, perhaps they don’t know why I was laughing.

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Hahaha…even a Banarasi Panda(priest) feels threatened by my presence. Yesterday, a Panda interrogated me, and warned: You’ll not be able to stay here for long.

I laughed and replied: I can stay anywhere if I wanted to. But the thing is that I don’t feel like staying at any place for long. And that’s my choice, not my compulsion.

Then the panda ran away.

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Was walking in the narrow streets after the aftenoon swimming. A few youngsters greeted with ‘Namaste’. Saw a bundle of Rs. 500 notes lying on the way. Took the bundle and kept on walking. The boys yelled: ‘Hey man, that’s fake. April Fool. Hahaha’

I also laughed and thanked them for letting me see who I am.

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A word for jealous guys: Travelling is not easy you assholes! Otherwise couch potatoes like you would also be doing it. But the insights you get while travelling and the joy of sharing your insights with the humanity makes you go through all the pains happily.

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Btw, these days I’m swimming in the Ganges whole day in the sun. Also got sun burns. But, I’m happy that I’ve further honed my swimming skills. I’ve discovered that people who swim in the rivers are happier than those who swim in the pools.

Afterall, you’re the happiest when you’re closest to the nature!

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Remember: I’ll disappear for don’t-know-how-many-days in my inner journey. But, keep on pondering over my lessons. 😉

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I’m Grateful to the Old Women who Offered me their Food

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 31, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal. Tagged: india, travel. Leave a comment

Guys, looks like India Govt is listening to me finally. They should. After all, I represent the voice of my age. After my complaint of excessive red tape in North East and on surfing the internet, they seem to have relaxed their grip a little. That’s good.

Have been bathing in the Ganges for the last 2 days with other small, big and old kids. An old man was so good at swimming that he could float on water without any movement. I wish I could also do that. And the kids call me Uncle jee.

You know what? After swimming, I was looking at how some old women pilgrims were making puri and sabjee for them. Seeing me interested in their culinary art, one old lady asked: Wanna taste the Prasad? I nodded. And she gave me haluwa and puri.

But, the I was attracted by the sabjee they were making – of alu and saag(potato and green leaves). It looked really tasty. ‘You want that too?’ she asked. I nodded again. And she gave me the sabjee as well.

I felt so grateful after eating what they gave me. By monetary value, what they gave me was not worth more than Rs. 5. But, they shared with me what they were making for themselves with such a good feeling that I was really touched by it.

I think that’s why  spiritually enlightened people ‘beg’, although they’re not beggars. Otherwise, people who have attained higher level of consciousnesses are so powerful that they don’t need to beg. But, when you take something from others for free, you’re filled with gratitude. And owing to that gratitude, you happily extend yourself to help others.

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I’m never against People on Duty

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 30, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal. Tagged: current events, india, politics, travel. Leave a comment

As I was returning back from the North-East, I happened to hop on a compartment reserved for the army personnel.

Initially I was sitting in front of the door, and there were other ‘civil’ people as well in the compartment. In one statition, a man demanded to clear the space I was sitting on to keep his furniture items.

So I went inside the compartment and sat on a small vacant space on the upper birth. I was doing all these thing as any normal second class traveller does. But I was not aware that it was the ‘army’ compartment, and the security people sitting there were ‘suspicious’ of me.

An officer from Darjeeling asked me to get down and sit next to him. He asked me a lot of questions – in fact, I was being interrogated.

I sensed that the army personnel there were of mixed origins, and my presence there was creating a misunderstaing among the army personnels themsleves.

Some of them were of Nepali origin, others from Sikkim, Darjeeling and other India states.

The person who was interrogating me, Mr. K, was from Darjeeling. Seeing my interest in literature, he claimed that he can converse in poems. And he did answer me in a poem, when asked about himself. He was really an ‘ashu-kavi’.

Then he said: I feel like trusting you. But my profession does not allow me to trust you. Moreover, there’re my colleagues who don’t trust you. What’s in your that bag? Why’re you travelling like this? Why did you hop on an ‘army’ compartment? etc, etc

These days, I carry a saffron colored hand bag with an emblem of Shiva on it. I bought it in Haridwar during my last visit. I’ve sensed that security people  are very suspicious of saffron colored bags.

I opened my bag and showed to him: See, there isn’t anything suspicious in my bag, just a watter bottle and a few paraphrenalia. And that I was not carrying the saffron colored bag for any ‘cultrual’ reason.

When he asked me what profession I was in, I replied: I’ve been to many professions, the last one was in the media. But,  at present, I’m only a blogger.

Mr. K was not that well versed in internet. But his younger colleague, Mr. P, checked my blog on his mobile, and declaired: OK, he’s our friend.

The army personnel of Nepali origin felt obliged to support me coz I was from their country. And now the Sikkim man was also supporting me in the name of what he said ‘humanity’. Then the Darjeeling officer declaired: On my right side lies Sikkim, and on my left side lies Nepal. They both support you. Hence, I’m also obliged to support you.

Actually, he was saying all these things not to me, but to his other fellow personnel who were against my sitting in the compartment.

Then we shook our hands, and hugged each other. Then they asked me to take rest on the upper berth and Mr. P was assigned to ‘guard’ me.

When I was resting with my eyes closed, Mr. K asked: Is he sleeping? Others said: Yes. Mr. K: I hope I didn’t say anything wrong to him. I hope he doesn’t get a negative impression of us.

Others assured him: No, he’s positive. Didn’t he called you an ‘ashu-kavi’? That’s a great compliment.

They were right. I’m never against people on duty. I’m only against bloody politicians who make people fight with each other!

Btw, today I arrived Benares from Bodh Gaya.

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From Mizoram with Love

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 28, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal, society, travel. Tagged: india, travel. Leave a comment

I’d like to make some correction in my previous observation.

I think the warmth and openness that I sensed among the Mizo people in my abt 15 hrs stay at Izwal lies not in their religion, but in their tribal roots. Otherwise, until the 19th century, Christianity used to to be as oppressive and hypocritical as any other major religions of the world. And in some instances, it still is.

But why are  the Christian missionaries so successful in converting the tribal people around the world, including the Mizo tribes who are so close to Hinduism and Buddhism – both historically and geographically?  The success lies not only in their monetary power, but also in their acceptance of the basic tribal nature. In spite of the Christian influence, the Mizo people seem to have preserved their tribal instincts. And that was really a refreshing experience.

But the Mizos do not seem to have their own culinary variety. See, my taste buds are very sensitive. Most of the eateries in Mizoram sell either the bakery or the sweets. I guess, the art of making bakery came with Christian influence, and the art of making sweets from the Hindu influence later on. The only local variety I found was the broken rice pudding with pork curry. But, lemme confess, I was touched by the hospitality I received in Mizoram. And the girls at the restaurant charged me double for staring at their face. 😉

While I was roaming around the town at night, a few ‘drug addict’ looking people approached me and later tried to ‘harass’ me. However, upon reflection, I’m almost sure that they were working for the state’s secret service. I think they were not harassing me, but they wanted ascertain if I was involved in narcotic or other ‘suspicious’ activities. Guys, I called myself a hippie not in that sense.  In fact, back in Benares, I’d even declined smoking hashish and angered the Naga Baba.

After getting tired of walking along the Izwol streets, I lied down on an open space in front of a big govt building – my ingenious method of saving money and experiencing the night life! And without even talking to anyone, I was able to ‘sense’ the rivalry between the ‘center’ and the ‘periphery’.

Izwal is cleaner, less polluted and more fashionable than other cities in India. However, I’ve one complaint to make. I’d to pay Rs. 10 for doing aachee (loo) and Rs. 5 extra for washing my face. And that’s too much for me guys! :P:

Btw, I’m going to Benares again…to swim in the Ganges!

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Visiting Mizoram, Darjeeling and Calcutta

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 25, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal. Tagged: Buddhism, Christianity, hinduism, india, society, travel. 4 Comments

Was internet starved for the last few days. Could not find cyber cafe anyhwere. Even in a metropolis like Calcutta, I’d to make especial effort to find a cyber cafe.

Looks like there’re wheels on my feet. Don’t feel like staying at any place for more than a day. Just feel like travelling all the time.

No matter how low profile I keep myself, some people discover me. I’d post my encounter with a Tamil proffessor of economics at the Mizoram University – Dr. Easwaran, a young bengali lover boy in his early twenties – Mr. Mazumdar, and also meeting with India army personnel like Mr. K and Mr. P and others from Darjeeling, Sikkim and Nepal. I’m not disclosing their identity coz they’re security personnel  But I’d a very unique experience with them about which I’ll write later.

This time, I’m going to write about my Mizoram experience.

Guys, looks like Indian Intelligence is keeping track of my movements. If I were like my fellow blogger Dr. Ruff, I might have written another article criticizing the India Govt. But, I’m happy if the India Intelligence is keeping track of my movements. After all, that’s why I leave my traces everywhere. That’s a training from me to the security people. Catch me if you can, dudes! 😆

When the Tata Sumo arrived at the Mizoram check post, a security officer came running and asked: A Nepali national is coming to Mizoram. Is he in this vehicle? All the passengers including Dr. Easwaran pointed their fingers to me: Yes, there he’s.

The security officer asked me: Are you from Nepal? I said: Yes. Then he asked my name. I replied: Divas. Then he looked at me for a few seconds and said to other passengers: OK. all of you show your pass to enter Mizoram.

Wow! It was really a stately honor for me that while even Prof. Easwaran had to show his ID proof, and I entered Mizoram without any pass. Later I came to know that there’s a huge presence of Nepali speaking people in Mizoram.

However, I didn’t find anything exceptional about Mizoram capital Izwal, as my Mizo friend back in Kathmandu had claimed. “Visit my Izwol at least once, it’s so beautiful that you might even think of settling down there,” my Mizo friend of Kathmandu  had proudly claimed about his homeland.

Instead, I found that for a person from Kathmandu, Izwol has very little to offer. Both Izwal and Kathmandu are mountain cities, therefore both cities are similar in many respects. There’s one difference, Kathmandu is a valley and Izwol is settled on mountain ridges. And yes, Izwol is more developed thatn Kathmandu.

There’s another differnce – cultural one. While Kathmandu has Hindu-Buddhist influence, Izwol is a Chritian capital. And yes, in a way my friend was right. The girls in Izwol are pretty, fashionable and less inhibited. Sometimes you do feel  like  settling down there. 😉

And since the girls and women of Mizoram are less inhibited, they are mostly happy and enterprising. To be honest, I didn’t find any woman beggar in Mizoram – a common sight in Hindu and Muslim influence area.  Like it or not, the girls and women from Christian and Buddhist background are much happier than their sisters from Hindu or Muslim background. And since the woman in Mizoram are happy and enterprising, men are also happier comparatively.

Hindu and Muslim social systems and values put so much bondage upon the girls and women that they find it very difficult to get out of the social trap without a man’s active support. I insist that instead of wallowing in arrogance or self-pity, cultures must interact and learn from each other.

My Mizo friend back in Kathmandu had also cautioned me: “But, don’t do anything bad there.”  So, why stay in a place where you’re tempted and yet you’re not allowed to do anything ‘bad’? :P:

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At World’s Wettest Place – Cherapunzee!

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 20, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: adventure, india, tour, travel. Leave a comment

Arrived Cherapunzee at abt 8 in the evening. Came to know that town is also known as Sohra. Was looking for a place to eat and stay. A young man in his late 2os, Atanu, ‘kidnapped’ me, so what he says, and took me to his resort abt 2 kms away from the town.

Initially, I was reluctant to be ‘kidnapped’, but later we settled the deal in Rs. 2oo per night. And believe me, that’s really cheap compared to the place and facility.

Atanu is a nice guy from Assam. When I asked him: Are you a manager here? He replied: That’s what people say. But I was also travelling like you, and I ended up here. Atanu is also an intelligent boy.

I keep on remembering the comment from the American girl I met in Chilika: ‘You’re a man. Therefore, you’ve more options.’ Boy, she’s totally right. It’s because I was a man that I happily allowed some terrorist looking men to ‘kidnap’ me at night, put me in their Tata Sumo, and take me to their resort far away from the town.

The most interesting part of travelling is that, like in life, things suddenly turn unexpected. And I like that.

The weather is chillier in Cherapunzee, and awesome landscapes – perhaps much more beautiful and serene than Kathmandu in some ways. And the Cherapunzee culture is completely ‘un-Indian’. A refreshing experience.

The next day, met the  resort owner, a local lady from Cherapunzee. Unlike in the ‘Hindu’ part of India, entrepreneurship is very strong among North-East women. From betel leaf vendors to restaurant and resort owners -you will find enterprising women everywhere.

The lady dropped me off to the town. She said that she had a friend from Nepal’s royal family while studying at Loretto in Darjeeling. And I told her that Nepal’s former royals are also in the tourism business. She asked me to visit often and refer other people to her resort.

There were also a few young adventure tour guides spending their time in the resort. One of them came to meet me when he learned that I was from Kathmandu. ‘So, you’re Kathmandu? My wife is also from Kathmandu, she’s a Tamang’ he said. I asked him how a boy from Meghalaya met a girl from Kathmandu. ‘oh..we met when I was working in Mumbai’, he disclosed.

I’m posting it from Shillong. Coz surfing the net is much easier and reasonable in Shillong.

Thinking of going to Mizoram side as well!

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Divas Visits Assam, Meghalaya & Arunachal Pradesh in India

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 19, 2013
Posted in: nepal. Tagged: india, travel. Leave a comment

Meghalaya: the Land above the Clouds (pic from the net)

Guys, visited India’s all three North-East states – Asam, Meghalaya, and Arunachal Pradesh.

I liked the name Meghalaya: the Land of the clouds. And it reminds me of a popular Hindi song: Megha re, Megha re…

When I was going deep into Assam through Nagaland, I missed the girls I met in Chilika. Especially, the American one. The landscape there was really rural and less touristy – just like she was looking for.

You know what, although it’s against my blogging ethics to provide details about anyone without their consent, I must say that I liked the American girl for her openness and friendliness. I’m a strong critic of American foreign policy. Yet, I find it easier to make friends with the American people than the people of other nationalities.

I think her travel partner, the Italian one, was scared that I might steal her friend. 😆 I found the Italian girl a bit what we say in Nepali, chhuchchee, or ‘jealous’. hahaha… Sorry, no offence meant girls!

And this happens with me everywhere, in the family, in the society and in the workplace. Everyone is scared of my genius, and people try to keep me in size or get rid of me. Often I wish to find a place where no one would be jealous of me. But what they don’t know is that a genius is always a genius. He’ll always find a way out.

But I agree with the girls in their observation that in India everyone tries to take advantage of you. The Japanese men I met a few days ago in Kathmandu had also similar opinion. Perhaps, that’s why the fishermen at Chilika were so nice with me. An example, I’ve bought two mobiles in the second hand market, but none of them works properly.

Can you guess from where I’m posting this entry? From Shilong of Meghalaya. I think Shilong is the most beautiful state capital of India. I also stayed one night at Jairampur of Arunachal Pradesh. But, didn’t feel like going further becoz of the excessive red-tapism there. Like the investors in India, I’m also put off by excessive beareaucracy.

Will go to Cherapunji today, the wettest place on earth. Also thinking of visiting Sikkim. Who knows I might meet my American friend again. But looks like like all pretty girls she too doesn’t want to meet me again.  🙂

Anyway, those who know Divas know it well that nothing really matters much to happy-go-lucky bindas Divas. 😉

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Travelling over Chilika Lake and making Psycho-Social Insights

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 14, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: india, society, travel. 10 Comments

chilika lake

Chilika Lake: Pic from the net

In Puri, took bath on the sea beach. Nowadays, I take bath whenever I get an opportunity. Coz it’s hot here. The Puri beach is not as exotic as they claim in the guide books. The current there is very strong. Still, you’d see thousands of people bathing together.

From Puri, headed to Chilika Lake at Satpada. Chilika lake is one of world’s largest brackish water site. It’s being conserved as a Ramsar site. Arrived there in the evening. The next day took a 4 hours boat ride to Balugaon. But, didn’t see many birds, otherwise the lake invites millions of birds from the world over.

Met two foreigner girls in Chilika. Initially, was hesitant to approach them. The reason why I find it difficult to open up with girls lies in the my childhood. I wasn’t as good looking, handsome or smart in my childhood as I’m now. 😆

In fact, I was so ugly that according to my grandma, my mom refused to nurse me after giving me birth. People say that my mom’s sister took care of me in my early childhood. And I think, I was very much attached to my mom’s sister in my childhood.

Thus I grew up as an ugly duckling, everyone used to tease me. The sense that I’m not good looking was deep rooted in my psyche until my mid-thirties.  But, I’m not that image conscious about my looks nowadays. And I love to stare at beautiful faces. Once, a few day ago back in Kathmandu, when I was staring at two young girls, one of them exclaimed: Aachee, Kasto ghurer po herdo ra 6 tyo budho le” (My goodness, look at that old-man,and how he’s staring at us). So, do I look like an old-man now? But, I never felt like that. 😦

Still, I feel awkward to approach girls. But I must break this awkwardness. Coz many females have felt hurt by my this awkwardness.

So, I approached the two foreigner girls and asked for some relevant info. Both were traveling solo, but met at some hotel. So, they were traveling together coz they found it easier to do so in India.

One of them, the American one, looked a bit tired and frustrated. When I asked what was her impression about India, she sighed and said: “I think you need a lot of patience in India.”

Then they explained how everyone in India wants to take advantage of you. When I told them that I take the train journeys at night to save money, she said: “You’re a man, so you’ve more options.”

So, even an American girl of 21st century feels constrained by her gender while traveling in India. Thus, I started making sociological interpretations. After all, my one teacher had once proudly declared: “Our products are the best in the social sciences.” And i’ve proved that he was not wrong. 😆

OK, this much of narcissism for today. 😉

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Divas Travels to Ranchi & Puri in India

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 11, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: india, travel. 5 Comments

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Mental Hospital: Where the Wrong Guys ‘Treat’ the Right People

hahaha…many people must be laughing after reading the title of this post… and they might be chuckling:  Divas Jee, you’re at the right place now.

In fact, if I were born 50 yrs ago, people would have definitely brought me to Ranchi as they’d done to our Romantic Poet Laureate Laxmi Prasad Devkota.

And when I asked the auto driver that I wanted to go to Ranchi’s Pagalkhana(Mental Hospital), he looked at me top to bottom and laughed  and said: To aap bhi aa pahuche, So, you too arrived here! 😆

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Btw, don’t get me wrong. I’m getting a lot of respect and attention in India. Some respect me as a filthily rich foreigner and others respect me as a Baba in the making.

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What I enjoyed in Ranchi was that it’s the land of tribal people. I’d gotten fed with the arrogance tussle between Bramhin Chetris & the Janajatis back in Nepal. So, seeing the tribal people with earth colored face was really a refreshing experience.

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There was a train from Hatia to Puri. I liked it’s name: Tapaswini Express. And thus arrived Puri.

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You know what? My cellphone has been stolen at the Puri Railway Station. And I’m really sorry for and thankful to whoever stole it. Coz it had a very poor battery, and i was thinking how to get rid of it. The only thing is that with the cellphone my expired sims and a memory card with pictures and other data were also gone. Anyway, thank you very much Mr. Thief for providing me an opportunity to buy a new mobile phone!

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When people ask me why you need money, I feel like saying that I need money to do the internet. Surfing the net in India is very costly and highly bureaucratic  I’ve to produce my Citizenship Card every time.
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Thinking of going to Chilika Lake – my long time wish!

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Divas Freaks Out in Benares in India

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 7, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal. Tagged: india, Photography, travel. Leave a comment

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But the pic is not mine, coz my cellphone is dead!

Guys, these days i’m freaking out in Benares or Varanasi, India.

Swam in the Ganges with other small and big kids. Enjoyed massage. Tasted various mouth watering food items.

And it’s so fun.

And surfing the net is also easier in Benares comparatively.

But the thing is that owing to my get-up everyone here takes me to be a foreigner and they charge me a hefty sum.

And in every noon and corner someone whispers to me: Hashish?

But, I’m happy that while enjoying myself I’m also able to provide employment to others.

Will move on to some other place soon!

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If you wish to describe Benares in one word, it’d be ‘diversity’.

This cosmopolitan town is so diverse that in every nook and corner around the Ghats you’d stumble upon tourists, Sadhus, beggars, and cows and bulls.

Also been to Sarnath. But, like everything else in the world, Sarnath and it’s Deer Park are not as exotic as it sounds in the guide books – unless you’re an archaeologist.

To be honest, Nepal’s Lumbini is much more fascinating than Sarnath.

Btw guys, since i’m thinking of awakening my Kundalini at some proper place, I’m might disappear for several days without any trace. And if got opportunity, I’d also see if I could add laurels to my formal studies as well.

And don’t send a hunting squad in search of me. I appear and disappear at my own will.

Right now, I’m honing my swimming skills in the Ganges. Last time I enjoyed swimming in the river for several days was in the Narayani River at Chitwan some years back.

And I’m also studying Naga Babas’ that four lettered organ very carefully! 😆

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Shivoaham: I’m the Shiva

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 5, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal. Tagged: anthropology, Intellectual History, philosophy, politics, psychology, social systems, society, spirituality. Leave a comment

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When I said that even Buddha speaks from a limited perspective, a nice lady on Facebook persuaded me to think over Jesus as the only Way. That’s how people misunderstand me. What she didn’t understand that when I say even Buddha speaks from a limited perspective, I also mean that Jesus and other ‘enlightened’ beings also speak from their own limited perspective.  Similarly, from Plato to Marx and to Gandhi, no matter how respected their position may be in the history,  all of them speak from their limited perspective.

And I know that they knowingly speak from a limited perspective, coz they want to create a system. But, I’m not creating a system. Therefore, I do not follow any fixed pattern. Often I experiment. And often I make myself the object of experiment to experience things.

Whenever i find it suitable i take inspiration from all my predecessors, and whenever i think it necessary i also refute them. I experience the world. I try to see things as they’re. And I try to see things from different perspectives.  And I also seek justice for all.

And by nature, I’m highly individualistic. In that sense I resemble more to Shiva, if you’d compare me to mythological figures.  I try to see things with my third eye. You’d also find people like me among the romantic, beat and hippie poets. And also among the ‘mad’ people, although it might be debatable who’s really ‘mad’.

I’m trying to discover the root cause of human suffering of my times. Besides the lack of interpersonal skills and ignorance, the root causes of all unnecessary human suffering lie in the social systems based on false premises. Almost all the works in the history of mankind are based on false premises. And often social structures are intentionally based false premises – as an expression of power.

 Not only that, most of the  so-called intellectual works and theories prescribed by the modern knowledge industry are also based on false premises. And if you’ll base your systems and values on wrong foundations, you’ll never arrive at the right conclusions. And thus mankind goes through perpetual suffering.

Diagnosing the root cause of social and political maladies and finding the right cure is never an easy process. But, it’s an unavoidable & legitimate suffering that the society must go through. The society must go through the intense pain of self-reflection to accommodate the changes demanded by today’s increasingly technological and globalized world.

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Females of all Countries, Corporates & Professions, Unite!

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 2, 2013
Posted in: Divas, gender issues, humor, nepal. Tagged: Humor, politics, society, workplace politics. 2 Comments

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Guys, remember that post in which I said that most of the menfolks are pigs? hahaha… 😆

Well, I’ve sensed that some of my relatives, colleagues and friends have been offended by my that remark. They’re unhappy that I’ve exposed the brutalities of menocracy.

But I say everything from my own experience. And my experience says that not only in family life, but also in social and professional spheres, the civilization project led by men has utterly failed.

From my experience in various professions, I’ve come to conclude that even at the workplace, females are more professional, more understanding and far less political than the menfolks.

And there’s a reason why most of the men are so piggish in their behavior. For men, their ego comes before everything. Every man thinks he’s superior to others. They just can’t help it, it’s in their hormone. Testosterone is responsible   for man’s all egoistic behavior.

Even in the professional life, men are more interested in climbing the hierarchy ladder than getting things done professionally. And to climb the hierarchy ladder, men resort to cunning tactics that only create conflicts and suffering.

This is evident everywhere – from politics, to society, to academics, and to the corporate world.

Time has come for the females to lead every sphere of human activity and rescue the world from men’s atrocities.

Why don’t female scientists develop an injection that’d reduce men’s testosterone level? I’m ready to volunteer, if necessary. 😆

Females of all countries & corporates, Unite!

(And lemme know if any pig harasses you in any way)

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Even a Buddha Speaks From a Limited Perspective

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on March 1, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal, society. Tagged: Buddhism, hinduism, religion, spirituality, theology, travel. Leave a comment

As I said earlier, Swami Ananda has attained a higher level of consciousness. And I’m not saying it on the basis of what he said. Any fool can talk wise – therefore, beware of wise sayings. But, no matter how wise you may be sounding, you cannot hide what you really are. That Swami Ananda has attained a higher level of consciousness is evident not in what he speaks, but in how he speaks, and in how he does things.

 Still, everyone speaks from their own unique position. Even a Buddha speaks from his own limited point of view – and he cannot do so otherwise. So, Swami Aananda also speaks from his own limited perspective. I consider it my opportunity that Swamiji allowed me to observe him. And he also allowed me to write my impressions. And I’m really influenced by what he tried to convey to me through his being. Still, i’d say Swamiji doesn’t understand my perspective.

I’m saying ‘Aham Bramha’ to assert myself, but not to reject others. In fact, I’m one of the very few people in the history of mankind who accepts everyone unconditionally as they are. I don’t say anything to impress, to create a following, or to seek any sort of recognition. I’ve a very clear conscience. And I do and say whatever my Bramha or conscience dictates. That’s why Aham Bramha. And for me, there’s no difference between ‘Aham’ and ‘Sarvamidam’.

I’ve only one message to the mankind: do whatever makes you happy – whatever makes you happy is good, right and holy. Everything else is false. Coz I believe that only when you’re happy, you can do anything ‘good’ even from worldly point of view. In fact, when you’re happy and enjoying life, other people enjoy their life simply by observing you.

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The Whole World is Bramha

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 26, 2013
Posted in: Divas, travel. Tagged: india, Life, nepal, pursuit of happiness, spirituality, travel. Leave a comment

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Swami Ananda deserves more mentioning. Just as Swamiji was observing me, I was also observing him.

Swamiji said, “Dekho Beta, many people are lost in this path, but I see that you’re going the right way. Your greatest quality is that you accept everything. But, you still need to travel a long distance on this path.”

Then he further elucidated his point: “I saw you sitting alone in the park. You could have been anyone – a murderer, a thief, a terrorist or a madman. Still, I invited you to my home. I still don’t know even your name, and now you’re in my bedroom. This is an approach of looking at others that you should also cultivate: Sarvamidam Khalam Bramha(The whole world is Bramha).

I said: I can also see that other people are trapped in their lifestyle. Swamiji said: Seeing is not enough, being happy for yourself is not enough, you should also help them out. Then he gave the examples of Buddha and Mahavira: They were helping other people until their last moment in their eighties. And I remembered Todke Baba of Shivapuri who once said: I’m happy. But now I feel like helping others in their pursuit of happiness.

I said to him: I also do not go to everyone’s house. I saw you and felt like there must be something in common between us. Otherwise, I wouldn’t have come to your house: Aham Bramha.

Then Swamiji asked me to visit an Ashram in Madhavpur. “There’s my one disciple there, observe  him how he does things,” he said. And when I was in the Madhavpur Ashram, I found that Swamiji was already there. “So, it was all your trick. I’d not imagined that we’d meet again,” I said. Swamiji said: Aisa hota hai, beta. I’d also not planned this visit. Ye sab ‘happening’ me ho raha hai(everything is just happening).”

Then he explained his method of choiceless awareness.

Swamiji had asked me to stay in the Ashram for at least 3 days. However, I didn’t feel like staying there. When I was leaving, Swamiji took my hands in his hands and said smilingly: I won’t stop you if you don’t want to stay here. But once I catch someone’s hands, I don’t leave them easily.” And I also said smilingly: Swamiji, don’t forget that I’m also holding your hands. And I also don’t leave anyone that easily.”

Swamiji said: Mai us raah ki baat kar raha hoon, beta. (I’m talking abt ‘that’ path, son).

I said: Mai bhi usi raah ki baat kar raha hoon, swamiji.

Swamiji commanded immense respect from his people. But I was talking to him just like a friend. And Swamiji also seemed to enjoy my informal manners. Then he said: You also know that Sarvamidam Khalam Bramha. But, you don’t seem to care for others’ feelings. Mahasoos karo, beta.

It’s not difficult to find a Swamiji in India and Nepal. But I found that Swami Ananda had really attained a higher consciousness. You could see it in his being. In the way he spoke, and in the way he did did things.

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Divas Travels India and Nepal Again

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 23, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal. Tagged: india, nepal, Photography, travel. 1 Comment

People often ask me these days: Why do you always go to India? Why don’t you go abroad?

Well, if I were as rich as former Crown Prince Paras Shah, I’d certainly love to spend time with a Thai girlfriend on some beach in Bangkok. But until I make enough money to travel abroad, I want to reach all corners of India. After all, India itself is a continent. Moreover, even if you went broke in India, you can still find something to eat and a place to lie down !

Below are some old and some new pics from my India travel.

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One of the reasons why I go to India is coz I enjoy train journeys! Trains are the largest cultural classrooms in India.

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A file photo: Remember my travel companions, the Gujarati and the Rajasthani? Here too culture shapes personality: from their outfits to expressions. But remember, culture is just another social trap!

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Ahmedabad: I’ve seen men cart-pullers in Nepal. But never saw an old woman pulling a cart on a busy street before! Sometimes I think if I took some course in photography, I can also survive as a professional photojournalist!

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This is how I impressed Swami Ananda and he took me to his home.. 😆

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Besides human animals, I’m also fascinated by other animals’ behavior!

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People enjoying tea in Dwaraka. The Dwarakans have their own way of drinking tea. They pour it on a plate and do suruppa.

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The Dwarkan brand of tea has really a great taste.

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The Sun also rises in the Arabian Sea.

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This is one of the most famous temples in India – the Dwarakadhis Temple. Note Amitabh Bachchan promoting Dwarka Tourism. But there was a long line like that in our Pashupatinath. So, I didn’t feel like going inside. I also didn’t go inside the main temple in Rameswaram last year.  As I often used to tell my friends in my 20s: if there’s a god, he knows me very well, I don’t have to bribe him. I’ve found that most people bow to a ‘god’ not to surrender their ego, but out of insecurity and guilt.

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Instead, I was interested in this man in another temple.

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And I was interested in this goddess… don’t get me wrong guys, i was interested in her for purely aesthetic reasons! 😉

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Remember the 92 year young freedom fighter? He prefers to be left alone, so i’ll not disclose his location. This man has eaten up all 18 Shastras several times. But his definition of Dharma is similar to mine: Follow your own nature!

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And this is my true nature, to live life as naturally as possible. But, I’m only showing you a silhouette of my nakedness, to prevent you from any shock overdose!

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This is another most famous temple, the Somanath. But, this time I went inside it. It’s really one of most aesthetic temples in India. I wish the people at the Pashupatinath Steering Committee visited Somanath to learn how you look after a World Heritage Site. But, what I don’t like about the Hindu temples everywhere is the high decibel noise they create during the Aarati prayers. A Hindu mind is so disturbed that only a high pitch cacophony seems to suppress it.

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India is really a strange country. Gods and Satans live side by side. After all, they create each other. Stalin in Trivandrum, Kerala.

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Hey assholes, I also met your one friend walking alone on the road! 😆

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Also took a Tonga Ride in Gonda…

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Btw, this is a horse’s hole! 😆

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Been to Ayodhya as well. Again not for any religious reason, but for cultural reasons. I also wanted to visit the demolished site of Babri Mosque. I found  Ayodhya more interesting culturally than I’d imagined. It’s really an ancient sleepy town.

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I think the site at the former Babri Mosque is one of the most heavily guarded area in the world. After the demolition of the Mosque, the RamJanma Bhoomi Temple has been established. Interestingly, God there does not reside inside a temple, but inside a makeshift tent. The God is also waiting for the court’s final verdict.

The site is  so heavily guarded than when i took the pic of this notice, i was scolded by a guide that i might be arrested.  You walk through intricate barricade to reach the main site, and you’re thoroughly checked at several points. The site is guarded by devout Hindu security officials with surnames like Yadav, Chauhan, Rathore, etc. They also asked my name several times, and they were happy to know that I was from Nepal.

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Also took a boat ride at the Saryu River. Although a little polluted, I found Saryu much bigger than I’d imagined. No wonder that every great civilization in the past prospered on the banks of a great river!

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Ayodhyan Dogs – undernourished and unfriendly!

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And this is not India. Buddha was born in Nepal, not in India. 🙂 This is the famous Mayadevi Temple in Lumbini, Kapilvastu, Nepal. It was not a planned visit, but it happened to be on the Visit Lumbini Year.

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And this is site inside the Temple where Buddha was born. Taking photographs is not allowed. But, who can stop Divas the Sherlock Holmes? 😆

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To be honest, I found this ancient pond and its surrounding more spiritual than the Temple itself!

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My colleagues, friends, and relatives complain that I impose ‘silence’ upon them. But, see, i’m not alone to do so, guys!

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How to Clean your Room

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 19, 2013
Posted in: Divas, humor, nepal. Tagged: Amitabh Bachchan, Bollywood, Humor, india, nepal, travel. 1 Comment

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Divas in his Favorite Yogic Posture!

Guys, my landlady says that I don’t keep my room tidy.

She’s not wrong, but I also pay her more rent than other flat-mates.

Still she complains.

So, I’ve decided to leave her room.

But before that I’ve to clean the mess.

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Have you watched Amitabh Bachhan’s Satte pe Satta?

My room’s condition is exactly the same.

The bed has also broken down. I sleep on the floor.

Only a Hema Malini can clean up the mess.

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Idea! 

What if I ran away from the room and later informed her to contact my dad? 😆

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Are you a Vegetarian?

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on February 19, 2013
Posted in: Divas, nepal. Tagged: Diet, Food, Health, Mountaineering, society, spirituality. Leave a comment

These days people often ask me: Are you a vegetarian?

And my answer varies.

Sometimes i say: yes, i’m a vegetarian.

Sometimes i say: I’m a seasonal or almost vegetarian.

I’ve been a heavy meat eater half my life. And I’ve preached against eating meat in the remaining half. There was a time when I used to eat only fish and there was a time when I used to eat only eggs. And there was a time when I was completely vegan, I used to look down upon even those who consumed dairy products.

But, even Buddhism has to allow eating animal products when it goes to high mountains of Tibet. As the first Everest summiteer Tenzing Norgay Sherpa says in his autobiography:

“The reason we Sherpas have been so successful on climbing expeditions lie not only in our strong backs and legs, or in our love of mountains, but also in our eating habits. Most people of the east – Hindus, Moslems, Orthodox Buddhists, and almost all the smaller groups – have strict religious rules about diet, and it is very hard to keep them properly fed in the wilderness. But a Sherpa will eat anything – fresh, dehydrated, or out of tin – … our main food is apt to be some sort of stew, usually with potatoes as a basis and with meat or vegetable mixed in.”

(From Man of Everest – The Autobiography of Tenzing told to James Ramsey Ullman)

So, the Mahayana Buddhists from high mountains of Tibet, Nepal and Bhutan do  eat meat products, but they say that they don’t kill the animals. They say that they eat the meat of a dead  animal, which fell from a precipice  accidentally. And sometimes they leave the Yak and other animals on a high precipice and wait for it to fall accidentally.

So, whenever i consider it necessary, I do eat animal products even now. And still I’d love to call myself a vegetarian.

I don’t think that any human being can be called a strict vegetarian today, even if he/she does not eat meat.

Even if you don’t eat animal products directly, if you take modern medicines and medical services which are based on cruel animal trials, then you are in no way a vegetarian.

Moreover, non-veg items do taste pleasing to your taste buds!

And how can you call yourself a vegetarian, if you eat milk products?

So, my answer would be: yes, I’m a vegetarian. But, don’t get surprised if you saw me eating animal products.

Some even claim that Buddha died of diarrhea due to food poisoning  after he consumed ‘Pig’s Foot’. Others say that ‘Pig’s Foot’ is not really a pig’s foot, but the name of a mushroom species. Whatever, I understand why most of the spiritual disciplines from the East, especially those which  focus on meditation, advise a vegetarian diet.

Coz I agree with my one friend who used to say that eating eggs raises your testosterone levels considerably!

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Thus Spake Prophet Divas

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on January 11, 2013
Posted in: Divas. Tagged: Life, philosophy, Photography, spirituality, travel. 1 Comment

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Prophet Divas

Dear Mortal Beings

As one of the most compassionate persons who ever visited this planet, I’d like to share with you all what I’ve discovered so far. Life offers both pain and pleasure, and my aim of taking Divas Avatar is to release mankind from their unnecessary sufferings.

Remember that I’m not preaching anything. I’m telling you everything from practical point of view. I know that most of the prophets before me have also said similar things. But, I’m saying everything from my own experience. Therefore, I can guarantee the authenticity of everything I say:

 The most important four letter word: The most important thing in the world is that four letter word everyone knows. Come on you perverts, I don’t mean that one. 😆 I mean LOVE. Love is the most important thing in the world.

The Only Universal Thing: Everything changes. Change is the only universal thing in the world.

Responsibility: Your greatest responsibility is to be HAPPY. All other things are false. You’re not responsible for anyone else. But, only you’re responsible for yourself. Therefore, do whatever makes you happy. Whatever makes you happy is good, right and holy. Even from worldly point of view, you can do any good in this world only when you’re happy.

 Live Dangerously: Live an adventurous life. Every adventure freshens your life anew, and you do not get bored. An adventurous person dies only once, but a coward dies thousands of times.

 Two things to overcome: Fear and Greed. It’s difficult to enjoy life, unless you overcome fear and greed. Better die than fear. Fear is the root of all evil. Better live a single day fearlessly than living a long but fearful life. Especially, never fear another human being. Fear is the root of all relationship problems.  Btw, I’m scared of ghosts… 😆

Follow your own nature: You’re your own yardstick. No one knows why you were born.

Success: Success is not money. Success is not a position. Success is not a degree. Success is your ability to enjoy life. Do whatever you enjoy: read, write, sing, play, paint, travel, hike, blog, or fart.

Stop being image conscious: No human being deserves to judge you in any way.

Sense of Humor: With a sense of humor, you can takle any situation in life. Moreover, you’ll also learn to see the funny side of things.

 Last, but not least, RELAX…N Take’t Easy: You’re not going to live forever anyway.

Remember that I’m not giving you any ‘lifestyle regime’ to follow. Everyone has to discover their own formula. I’m only giving you points to ponder. What I’ve said above covers all aspects of life.

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Those who’ve been visiting this blog from the beginning know that like many other bloggers often this blogger also disappears for a long time…and nobody knows when he’d come back again. And blogging etiquette tells you to inform your regular visitors that you’re not going to update the blog for a long period of time.

If you’d like to visit when a new post comes, better leave your email like many other wise guys. The monkeys at the WordPress would send you an email whenever the blog is updated.

 Btw, I know that you people are gonna miss me a lot. But, don’t worry; I’ll certainly be back whenever I’d discover a new thing. Till then, ponder over my previous lessons, and ENJOY LIFE.

 Remember Again: I may not update the blog for a long time. Therefore, don’t visit any time soon… and if you do visit, don’t curse me if you don’t find a new post.

Take care, you wankers! 😉 :XOX :

With Love,

 Prophet Divas

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I’d been to Mountain Top again…

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on August 20, 2012
Posted in: Divas, nepal, Spirituality, travel. Tagged: Hiking, Mountain, Nature, Photography. Leave a comment

Guys, I’d been to the mountain top again…look, i’ll be on the top of that peak…

Btw, i’m still on a well traveled trail…

Since the monsoon rains are not over yet, you get to see different wild vegetation. Can you identify this flower?

On the way in a Buddhist Nunnery…a nun there warned me not to walk into the wild alone…’ sometimes leopards visit even our place’ she said…poor girl, what she doesn’t know is that leopards are very innocent animals… i live in a concrete jungle with millions of fiercest animals around me… 😆

It’s the monsoon season…and the rains are particularly active in this part of the Kathmandu Valley…so the trail turn into a small stream…of course, it’s a little bit nuisance when it rains cats and dogs for a long time…even my umbrella was useless…that’s why Buddha advised his disciples to remain inside the monastery during the rainy season…

Wow…a rare scene…the trail suddenly floods…

whoa…look, i’m inside the cloud…

Now it gets really wild…look at this gigantic tree…like the trees in Van Gough’s paintings…

Evening dawns…it’s time to seek a shelter to spend the night…but i won’t tell you where i spent the night…and you know the reason…i don’t want to see you there in my next visit… 😛

Morning time…and finally, i’m at the top… look, the clouds are below me…

No…it’s not a scene from an airplane…it’s a scene from the mountain top…look at the Himalayas far away…

A bumble bee and a leech are trying to ‘suck’ me…i just hope the bumble bee does not sting me…


Look at these gigantic wild ferns…like those you see in a National Geographic Amazon jungles…btw, i don’t watch TV these days…in fact, i don’t have that disease called ‘TV’.

On the lower parts…village people are carrying a sick woman to the town hospital on an ‘indigenous’ stretcher…

See, i came from that Mountain Top…i’m really Great… 😎

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Cross-Cultural Individual (Quest for Self-IV)

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on August 7, 2012
Posted in: Divas, nepal, psychology, society, Spirituality. Tagged: multiculturalism. Leave a comment

By Divas

(The title of my thesis begins with ‘Harmonious Self for a Harmonious World: Quest for Self … ‘.  I ‘ve also attempted to make a cultural analysis of the text with the hope of creating some cross-cultural understanding in an era of cultural assertiveness and arrogance. Although current European leaders from Merkel to Sarkozi are asserting that multiculturalism has ‘utterly failed’ in Europe, the cost of such a failure for countries like Nepal and India would be devastating.)

The early 20th century was also the era of cultural cross-fertilization. The industrial revolution promoted visits to far off places for colonial, commercial, and even just for curiosity. Development of steam and fossil fuel engines in the early twentieth century fueled the growth in the number of people travelling and settling to foreign lands. The interaction of different people also gave rise to interaction of different cultures. Hesse was aware that both the Eastern and Western cultures are going to misunderstand each other ultimately, since in their enthusiasm for finding the other exotic, in what Hesse saw as the West’s too ready embrace of the East, and vice verca, he “plainly detected too much unavailing flight into the exotic half-known”( Mileck 165).

Hesse seems to challenge both the Easterns and the Westerns to revalue their understanding of each other by overcoming all apparent contradiction and dichotomies through the realization of inner self. Hesse was aware of both the positivity and limitations of both the Western and Eastern ways, since he believed that “. . . basic truths about man and life were to be found behind the religious and philosophical trappings of the Orient and the Occident. . . (Mileck 165). All Hesse works seek to establish the individual’s multi-dimensional identity during the times of great personal and cultural crises.

Although Siddhartha is subtitled as an Indian Tale, Mileck calls Hesse’s protagonist Siddhartha not another Buddha from the East, but a Western Buddha or a “Western Possibility” (164). Hesse also seems to be making a criticism of Indian way of life as mired in too much pedantry and self-denial. The conflict of culture is latent in Siddhartha, since “Despite the Orient’s strong attraction, Hesse remained a Westerner” (Mileck 165). However, Hesse wants his Siddhartha to transcend the binaries of East and West as well. The setting looks eastern only because Hesse says so, but his depiction of the landscapes could be anywhere. The characters sound eastern only in their names, otherwise as Mileck observes, the figures do not evoke any physical or psychological dimensions.

In the words of Mileck, in Siddhartha, “. . . timeless substance (the human condition) found a consonant expression in timeless setting, characters, lives, and language. . .” (172). Thus, Siddhartha represents more of archetype than the actual people. Siddhartha’s opposition to all prevailing traditional paths seems Hesse’s call for rising above the trapping of all cultures regardless of whether one belongs to the Eastern or Western culture.

Mckay Jenkins, in his search for parallel ideas between Hinduism and Buddhism as seen by Salman Rushdie in the latter’s Midnight’s Children, alludes to Hesse’s Siddhartha as an example of cross-cultural text that shows human existence as nothing but a collection of diverse and fragmented identities. In his essay, “Rushdie’s Midnight’s Children, Meditation, and the Postmodern Conception of History”, Jenkins quotes a long passage from Siddhartha in which Siddhartha’s friend Govinda, looking into the face of his old friend Siddhartha, watches his friend’s face melt into the faces of countless other faces, “. . .  each image representing another fragment in the psychological, historical, and cultural makeup of the ‘individual’ man.” (67).

Hesse’s concern in Siddhartha is not to establish the superiority of any particular culture over another. On the contrary, through the treatment different cultures in Siddhartha, Hesse shows his respect for the plurality of cultures. As Stelzig observes Hesse is a, “humanist and cultural pluralist for whom the microcosm of the individual self is integrally related to the macrocosm of history and civilization” (“Hermann” 270). Hence, Siddhartha can also be seen as a text by an author highlighting the need for celebrating cultural diversity and yet seek for the unifying elements among cultures.

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Individual and Religion (Quest for Self-III)

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on July 17, 2012
Posted in: Divas, psychology, society, Spirituality. 1 Comment

By Divas

(In this chapter, Divas contends that spirituality and  religious dogmatism are  two different and often contradictory approaches to life.)

All religions preach for the individual’s personal endeavor to free his self from life’s miseries, and still every religion binds the individual in its faith. All religions have their respective gods judging every human activity, and every person will either deserve the heaven or the hell depending upon their conduct in relation to the religion of their faith. The fatal consequences of religious and ethnic conflicts in the increasingly multicultural world have encouraged people to search for an individual spirituality free from religious fanaticism. It has been felt necessary to differentiate between the organized religions and spirituality. Spirituality is increasingly being seen as compassion, tolerance and understanding and contrasted with religious collectivism.

Hesse himself was born and brought up as a Pietistic Protestant. However, he does not associate the term Protestant to any particular variety of Christian faith, but as an individual’s resistance against institutionalized religious dogmas. In an autobiography written in 1925, Hesse recalls how the religions were used to perpetuate the war, “even so-called spiritual people could find nothing better to do than preach hatred, spread lies, and praise the great misfortune” (Michels 13). The hazards of religions’ control over the individual are also being felt in the 21st century world affairs in the form of religious extremism. Eric Hill justifies the reason behind adapting the dramatic version of Hesse’s Siddhartha at the Berkshire Theater Festival in 2004 as to protect the humankind from those who cling to, “gods and guns as a way of protecting religion from threats real and perceived”. Thus, the hazards of extremism in the name of religions have made the thinkers to refute that spirituality is necessarily a religious domain. Even Hesse’s contemporary and Austrian born philosopher cum scientist Rudolf Steiner founded a spiritual movement he named “anthroposophy” which was a philosophic and spiritual doctrine centered not on the gods but on the human beings.

However, as early as in the 6th century BC, Buddha had refuted the prevailing religious view that belief in some form of superior deity or the god was necessary for one’s enlightenment. He also rendered unnecessary all the rituals promoted by the then prevailing religion, Hinduism. Buddha rejected all prevailing doctrines and claimed that depending upon God’s mercy puts hindrance to an individual’s efforts on earning his own salvation. He also prohibited all philosophical discussions regarding the existence of god, afterlife, or Atman and insisted that the individual should discipline his mind through right conduct, right speech and right effort. Replying to a query by his disciple, Buddha once put forward his logic, “I haven’t taught the world is eternal or not, that it is finite or not, that the breath and the body are identical or not nor that a person after death will pass to future existence, or not, or both, or neither. . . Simply because these issues are pointless, unprofitable and a waste of time” (Kanekar 280).

Thus, Buddhism is also sometimes described not as a religion but as a spiritual method focusing on the individual’s quest for personal self. Hesse appreciates Buddha’s way in his lecture on Siddhartha, “Buddha’s way to salvation has often been criticized and doubted, because it is thought to be wholly grounded in cognition. True, but it’s not just intellectual cognition, not just learning and knowing, but spiritual experience that can be earned only through strict discipline in a selfless life” (qtd. in Freedman 233). However, the irony with Buddhism is that Buddha himself is worshipped as a God by most of his followers with no less ritualistic and no less dogmatic than what Buddha had accused of Hinduism. Hindus, too, worship the Buddha as one of their eight avatars.

Such tendency of deification of the individual achievement and humanization of the supernatural God exists even during the post-modern era when religions have been on their defensive side. The God theory has not lost its charm even while humanizing the God as, “His qualities are human virtues, raised to the nth degree. His interest in man remains even when, as in modern Barthian theology, he is described as the ‘wholly other’” (Niebuhr 34).

After the European Enlightenment period, perhaps Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860) was the first philosopher who contemplated upon discovering one’s true self without necessarily believing in any religious system or the Gods. Schopenhauer thought life for the individual as an unavoidable suffering. For Schopenhauer, all the experienced activity of the self is will and the ultimate reality is one universal will. In his discussion of the nature and scope of subjective element of aesthetic pleasure, Schopenhauer hopes for, “the deliverance of knowledge from the service of the will, the forgetting of self as an individual, and the raising of the consciousness to the pure will-less, timeless, subject of knowledge, independent of all relations” (498). Thus, Schopenhauer advocates for the anguished individual to seek for deliverance from life’s sufferings through artistic, moral and ascetic forms of awareness. Schopenhauer’s idea that the world is not factual but mere projections of our mind not only echo with Hindu and Buddhist vision of life, but as Baumann claims even his salvation philosophy “ . . . corresponds to the traditional ‘Tat tvam asi’ of the Upanishads and the Buddhist idea of salvation by overcoming ‘Thirst’ and egocentricity”.

Schopenhauer influenced many literary and philosophical figures including Nietzsche and Hesse. Hesse even sets the story of Siddhartha in Buddha’s time and makes Siddhartha the Brahmin boy hold a discussion with the Buddha. Hence, Siddhartha has also been considered as a mythical narrative based on Buddha’s early life. However, contrary to popular misconception, Siddhartha is not Buddha’s biographical story. Hesse’s Siddhartha who is awed by Buddha’s persona and yet denies taking refuge in Buddha’s Dhamma has a correlation with Hesse’s own initial admiration of the Buddha and later disenchantment with Buddhism’s too rationalistic generalization. While writing Siddhartha, Hesse seems to be influenced not only by Hindu and Buddhist views on life, but also by the religious philosophies of ancient China, such as Taoism. Hesse’s biographer Mark Boulby claims that Siddhartha is an amalgam of Vedanta and Tao philosophies with, the Indian-Hindu “letting oneself fall into life (tyaga)” and the Chinese-Taoistic “enlightened passiveness (wuwei)” (143).

In his autobiography for the Nobel Prize Acceptance Speech, Hesse discloses the reason why he could not accept the religion of Christian Pietism he was born into was because of its aim of, “subduing and breaking the individual personality” (Gale 349). And yet, his opposition to the institutionalized religions’ suppression of the individual self seems to contradict with his observation in a 1930 essay, “I myself consider the religious impulse as the decisive characteristic of my life and my work” (qtd. in Ziolkowski 106). The contradiction can be understood if one appreciates that Hesse’s “religious impulse” suggests an approach of consciously choosing one’s own way of life. If any religion that Hesse believed in it was humanism, as Zipes writes in his evaluation of the influence of fairy tales in Hesse’s works, “If there ever was a creed that he [Hesse] devoutly followed, it was the German romantic Novalis’s notion that ‘Mensch werden ist eine Kunst’- to become a human being is art” (241).

Thus, Hesse attempts to establish the significance of the individual’s personal quest for self through the interaction with diverse religions. Hesse proposes his own version of spirituality that dissolves the dichotomy of opposite pairs both within the individual and outside in the world, “For me, although brought up a Protestant Christian but then later educated in India and China, there do not exist all these twofold divisions of world and men into opposite pairs. For me, the first dogma is the unity behind and above the opposites” (qtd. in Herzog). Hesse’s interest in finding unity behind opposites can also be seen in Siddhartha, in which the protagonist appreciates religion as a method for self-realization and yet refuses to accept any religious doctrine insisting upon finding the unity behind all opposites through his own search for self.

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What is Enlightenment? (Quest for Self-II)

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on July 11, 2012
Posted in: Divas, nepal, psychology, society, Spirituality. Tagged: buddha, climate, Meditation, science, Self Growth. Leave a comment

By Divas

(Philosophers from ancient to modern times have been discussing the idea of ‘enlightenment’ – both in the Eastern & Western traditions. In the pre-modern era, Immanuel Kant famously asked, “What is Enlightenment?”.  Michel Foucault too asked “What is Enlightenment?” in the pre-postmodern era. Divas asks the same question, “What is Enlightenment?” in the post-postmodern era of 21st century.)  

What is Enlightenment?

Humans seem to desire self-transformation in their cognitive and affective faculties. Both in the Eastern and Western traditions, there have been attempts of finding a peculiar state of mind which surpasses normal instinctual feelings. Being social animals of the highest order, humans have developed very complex societies. Creation of social systems has endowed the species superiority over other species. However, human individuals undergo intense anxiety in the course of their adaptation and survival in accordance with the complex social systems. The demands of the complex social life often become stressful for the individual.

Moreover, there is also the natural process of decay and disease. The natural and social demands often persuade an individual to seek for a peculiar state of mind which remains untouched by the anxieties and suffering of normal life-cycle. The viscidities of normal social and personal life make some individuals to seek for a state of mind that may be called “enlightenment”.

However, the concepts of enlightenment differ between the Eastern and Western traditions. Eastern traditions see enlightenment as a spiritual phenomenon, while the Western concept seems to relate enlightenment with the acquirement of knowledge. Enlightenment is also an intellectual movement in the European history known as the Age of Enlightenment or the Age of Reason. Despite the various strands of Enlightenment ideas of the 17th and 18th century Europe, there seems to be a common theme of, “a drive to break the power of dogmatic religion and throw off the shackles of superstition, appealing instead of the power of reason” (Stokes 93).

Kant famously placed his faith in human reason in his answer to the question of “What is Enlightenment?” with, “Enlightenment is man’s release from his self-incurred tutelage . . . Sapere Aude! ‘Have courage to use your own reason!’ – that is the motto of enlightenment” (15). Thus, while Eastern traditions see enlightenment as a mystic experience of an individual in the course of spiritual evolution, on the other hand, the Western focus on reason takes Enlightenment away from mysticism.

Enlightenment as a state envisaged in the Eastern traditions is an individual phenomenon. Perhaps, therefore, the phrases “self-enlightenment” or “self-realization” are also used in the Eastern traditions to denote the goal of every individual spiritual seeker. How and when enlightenment dawns upon a person differs from individual to individual. As Kupperman observes, “The Buddha provides only what amounts to a do-it-yourself kit for liberation, so that in the last analysis enlightenment is a matter of individual effort” (40).  On the other hand, in the Hindu philosophic system, an individual must possess the knowledge of one’s Atman or real self, “both for enlightenment and for liberation” (Kupperman 12).

However, once an individual has achieved his enlightenment, for him the duality of this world and the other world as well as the stages of enlightenment or non-enlightenment becomes irrelevant. Whether an individual is enlightened or not matters only to others, but not for the person who himself gets enlightened. The individual’s enlightenment, “would seem real from outside – from the point of view of those who still think of the world in terms of distinct individuals and are not enlightened – but not from inside” (Kupperman 14). Thus, even the distinction made between Atman and Brahman becomes meaningless, for Atman becomes Brahman for the enlightened individual.

However, there is also opposition to the concept of enlightenment that transcends all miseries as deception or illusion. Although enlightenment is supposed to vastly expand the individual’s consciousness by getting rid of personal ego, the psychologist Jung who was immensely influenced by Eastern mysticism tried to convince the Hindus that “. . . it is impossible to get rid of the idea of the Ego or of consciousness, even in the deepest state of Samadhi” (Serrano 62-63).

Even the Western concept of Enlightenment that celebrates the triumph of human reason and rationalism has been criticized as deception. The European Enlightenment superiority promoted more sophisticated violence and warfare, along with the call for democracy and personal freedom increased bureaucratic control over the individual, the natives’ control over natural resources were robbed off in the name of free trade, and exploitation of the native population took place through the spread of European colonialism in Asia, Africa, Australia, and the Americas.

Even in the postmodern era of the 20th and 21st century, Foucault feels the need to re-investigate Kant’s question of “What is Enlightenment?” observing that, “From Hegel through Nietzsche or Max Weber to Horkheimer or Habermas, hardly any philosophy has failed to confront this same question, directly or indirectly” (103). Foucault further warns not to confuse Enlightenment with “faithfulness to doctrinal elements” (113). Similarly, justifying Hesse’s model of aestheticism devoid of ideological dogmatism, Dollimore observes “In short, the Second World War confirmed, for many, the bankruptcy of Enlightenment humanism . . . not just of its inability to prevent barbarism, but its complicity with it” (39).

Thus, while the proponents and followers see enlightenment as a liberating phenomenon, critics claim the idea of enlightenment itself to be illusory and deceptive.

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A Quest For Self

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on June 23, 2012
Posted in: Divas, nepal, society, Spirituality. Tagged: buddha, Dharma, Enlightenment, Individuality, Intellectual History, karma, Life, philosophy, society. Leave a comment

By Divas

(Today I’m posting an excerpt from my thesis which is rotting in the university library with thousands of others. I was thinking of publishing my thesis on some journal, but then only a few scholars and research students would read it. Since my blog has worldwide exposure, i decided to post some portions of my thesis on the blog for the benefit of the public at large. Moreover, by posting it on the blog, i can also address all those people who have been eagerly awaiting for it.)

Humans are endowed with the capacity of reflecting upon the nature of their actions, feelings, and thought processes. Although it’s difficult to locate the self physically, every individual has a sense of the ‘self’ located at the center of their consciousness which is also the subject of all experiences of that individual. An individual is always in a dual conflict: with the society and with his own self. Being a component of the society he lives in, the individual is expected to observe societal norms and liabilities. The human individual often finds himself in a dilemma whether he should endeavor for the pursuit of one’s self or carry out the social responsibility of collective goals.

The study of the self is an essential part of psychological, philosophic, and religious studies. Self may be seen as one’s innermost nature or true essence, the referent of “I” – the ultimate locus of one’s identity. In psychology, the self is the representation of cognitive and affective aspects of one’s identity. In Jungian psychology, “The self is the master archetype . . . in a constant process of development which became fully realized when all aspects of our personalities are equally expressed” (Stokes 141). The self is both the agent and the knower involved in each person’s actions and cognitions.

Other terms closely related to and substituted for self are being, identity, personality, individuality, ego, soul, subject, and consciousness. One’s search for self may be seen as one’s search for personal identity. Since one’s self is a unique feature of one’s personal identity different from all ‘others’, the quest for self is also seen as an individual’s quest for his distinct individuality. Similarly, one’s assertion of individuality may also be seen as the assertion of one’s unique self. Thus the quest for the self is an individual’s quest for his uniqueness that makes him different from all others.

In the Hindu philosophic system, the Atman is an individual’s essence or soul, or an individual’s innermost or true self. Knowing the nature of one’s true self or Atman has been one prime goal among the practitioners of Hinduism. This Atman or true self remains constant while everything else remains in a state of flux. The goal of a seeker would be to discover how one’s individual Atman dissolves into the Universal Self or Divine Self, the Brahman.

Another idea regarding the self in the spiritual traditions is the idea of self-transcendence. The suffering an individual undergoes in the course of life results from their ego or self. Hence, to get rid of the suffering, one has to get rid of the idea of having a separate and constant self. Buddha through his doctrine of Anatta or non-self denied altogether the Hindu philosophy of the existence of a permanent unchanging self or Atman. The spiritual traditions focus on transcending the self or self-transcendence as an art of mastering one’s self. As Frifjof Capra states in his The Tao of Physics, one of the highest aims for their followers whether they are Hindus, Buddhists or Taoists, is to “transcend the notion of an isolated individual self and to identify themselves with the ultimate reality” (24).

In the Western philosophic traditions, Plato defined reason or Intellect as the true self of a being, while Aristotle took soul or the self not as a separate entity but as an activity of the being. Similarly, another Greek philosopher Diogenes preached a doctrine of mastery of the self or self-sufficiency. In the modern philosophical tradition, Descartes and Locke are credited to have begun the discussion on the idea of self. Since the Romantic period the erstwhile religious and theological concept of self became secular and the idea of “unique personal self became fundamental to aesthetics, religion, philosophy, social sciences, and to the general construction of identity” (Hess 1031).

The literary works too are accounts of the protagonists’ quest for self. The quest for self in literary works may be in the form of identity, individuality, or finding one’s unique existence in the society. The characters in quest for their self take an inward journey within and discover the true essence of their self based on their own intense reflections. The protagonists in quest of their self seem highly individualistic, thus take a bizarre path to self-discovery rather than following an ordinary social life. Often such individuals seem to challenge existing social norms, belief systems and authority while asserting the inner calling of their own self.

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Divas Can be Destroyed, but not Defeated

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on August 7, 2011
Posted in: Divas, psychology, society, Spirituality. Tagged: Fashion, Photography, tour, travel. 1 Comment

By Divas

People have been suggesting me to go abroad since the time I finished my school… my teachers in the colleges used to say that Divas will not stay in Nepal…many of my friends went abroad, some of them have become really successful… and they are still calling me, and call me a fool…but i never felt like going abroad to make money or for any other purpose…it’s not that I’m a great nationalist of sort..i’m not even saying that it’s wrong to go abroad…in fact, I don’t believe in any sort of jingoistic nationalism…and I’ve seen that many people who’re abroad have served this country better than those who’re staying here.. it’s just that i feel like staying in Nepal no matter what…

Then people say why are you staying in Nepal? To be a ‘Thulo Manchhe’ or ‘Great Man’? No, I’ve no desire to be a Great Man, coz I think I’m already great..& I don’t need anyone’s certificate for that… i always felt like I’d feel homesick if I went abroad… I’d read somewhere that those who’re attached to their mothers during childhood, are reluctant to leave their place..I think there’s a sense in that… a few times, i’ve even filled up the Divesity Visa(DV) lottery of US …but I filled up the DV just for the sake of fun…and I used to say to everyone that even if they award me the DV, I’ll reject it…

And people say this to me…if you can’t be like us, and if you won’t go abroad, then go to Himalayas..go to the Jungle…yes, that’s what I find tempting…I’ve a long time desire to go to the Himalayas or the Jungle and stay there…but again, you know what…there’s a survival problem in the Himalayas and the Jungles..coz unlike the Buddha’s time, there’re no fruits in the jungle nowadays, human animals have encroached upon everything…

And what a greater concrete jungle than modern day cities and towns with ferocious animals called homo sapiens? In fact, no matter what, i enjoy human company…i don’t talk to them often…but still enjoy to see them talking and doing things…it’s all just a play…from birth to death, you’re just playing.. your playthings change, but you keep on playing…

So, I’ve two wishes left: I need to survive in this my cruel yet funny world… and I also need to express myself… as long as there’re enterprising people, i will survive…many times, I’ve gone so broke that i often thought of selling vegetables in the street…but then, the enterprising private sector always welcomes me…they make use of me and they give me what I need.. and as long as there’re blogs, I would express myself… thanks to the wordpress, I’m my own publisher with worldwide circulation…

But people say that one day I will get tired of Nepali system and go abroad…they say that I’ll run away…but they’re wrong there too… I’d certainly love to make a world tour, but only if I’m able to make money in this country…and only if I can make money by working…but I won’t mind even if I couldn’t make money or make a world tour… I certainly have my weak moments…but then again I take it as a challenge against which I’ve to prove myself…

Over the years, although I’ve not grown tired, but often feel wakka or what the spiritualists say bairagya… but, in any case, Divas will not run away…if necessary, Divas will work hard till his ass falls…and the day he felt like the world or society or life is overpowering him, he will sail on the wild seas, go into the Himalayas, or put a bullet in his head just like Hemingway did…but, mind you, i’m not lamenting anything…very few people have been able to enjoy their life the way i’ve enjoyed my life..

Our Rana sir also put a bullet in his head…Like many other teachers, Rana Sir was also fond of me…he used to call me Director Saab…coz I used to say that after finishing studies, I’ll become a truck driver and then a film director…& he really laughed out loud when i said that to him.. but one day, he put a bullet in his head… whatever, like his teachers, Divas will never compromise with anyone on anything… As Hemingway says, “A man is not made for defeat…a man can be destroyed but not defeated.”

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Riding Bicycle in Kathmandu to Change the World: An Inflated Ego

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on July 19, 2011
Posted in: Divas, society. 7 Comments

By Divas

i earnestly believe that i’m changing the world for good by riding a bicycle. Well, you may call it my megalomania or narcissism, but i earnestly believe that i can change the world for good. What i want to show to the people of Kathmandu is that you can ride a bicycle and still be a respectable citizen of the country… these days, i even don’t care if someone calls me a psycho..in fact, beggars and psychos fascinate me more that the ‘normal’ people.  whenever i see a beggar or a crazy person, i watch them carefully, and the more i watch them the more I find that they’re also like me…I could have been them, and they could have been me…and in fact, they’re me and I’m them…

i pity those whom the world calls successful, rich, and powerful…for i can see what they’re missing and what they’re going through to be what they’re…i even feel pity for those people whom I’ve criticized and ridiculed on this blog..for i can see what they’re going through written on their faces…I know that no one wants to be bad or hurt others..everyone wants to be good and liked by others… i don’t even judge those who’re convicted as criminals…for i can see that they’re just the scapegoats of the society they’re living in…

hence, of late, i’ve been thinking that perhaps there’re some milder ways to change the world…and one of them is riding a bicycle…and another thing i love to do is to share my experiences with the students…since I’m free for a couple of hours in the morning, I’ve been thinking of volunteering that time for teaching students… I’ve been a teacher for most of my life, therefore i know that it’s the teachers who can change the world for good with the least coercion..

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Cruising Mountain Bike in Kathmandu Streets: Fulfilling Childhood Dream

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on July 2, 2011
Posted in: Divas, nepal, society, world affairs. 5 Comments

By Divas

Of late, I’ve gotten wakka (fed up) with writing & preaching on political matters, hence i’d like to share a bit of my personal life with the readers.

The news is that i’ve been riding a bicycle for the past two months. And i’ve gathered quite a bit of experience as a mountain biker.

The day i bought my mountain bike or MB, many people declared that it was another proof of my craziness. Although it was not the first time they were saying that to me. It’s simply unacceptable in bourgeois Kathmandu society for a respectable middle-aged man to ride a bicycle while commuting to & from his workplace.

But, as is my habit, which would not die anytime soon, i’d to break this fucking bourgeois status concept of the Kathmanduites. Besides, i’d to also fulfill the great responsibility of saving the humankind from the impeding climatic disaster. So, i did it again by riding a MB instead of a motorbike.

And i’m really happy to regularly ride a bicycle after so many years. In fact, riding a MB was one of my childhood dreams. When i’d just finished my school, MBs were still a rare possession even among the professional bikers. My one friend’s relative had brought an MB from Japan. And i used to wish that my dad would also buy me a similar MB.

But, as my dad was a civil servant and also a very very kanjoos or miser, he told me bluntly that he could not afford to buy me an MB. Instead, one not-so-fine day, he brought an Indian bike Atlas. Thus was how my dream of riding a MB shattered. And i promised myself then & there that one day i’d buy myself an MB with my own hard-earned bucks and cruise it on the main road.

What amused me the most was that from my dad to relatives, and from friends to colleagues, all were literally shocked to see me riding a bicycle. In fact, when i proudly posted the picture of my new MB on the Facebook Wall, only one of my several bosom friends clicked ‘Like’ on it. And he, too, went agape when he saw me riding a bicycle while commuting to & from my workplace.

And no one has congratulated me yet for riding a bicycle… not even the incumbent Environment & Climate Minister.  Boo…. 😀 !

To be continued

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‘i never give them a hell. i give them truth & they think it’s hell’

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on January 14, 2008
Posted in: Divas, ethics, freedom, gender issues, memoirs, nepal, observations, parenting, professions, psychology, society. Leave a comment

Contd from ‘One does not write for slaves’

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Saturday, June 17, 2006 
The girl, now married, came with her man yesterday. Though I donot talk to people that much, I was looking for some cue to know whether she’s happy or not.

My god, she looks completely normal. How easily she accepted everything, and made things easier for all in her family! This morn she and her man went to Daksinakali on her bro’s bike.

May be that she had two married elder sisters who frequently visit this place and her experienced parents have made things easier for her.

But still…I’d been to my one relative yesterday. I came to know that my cousin was pregnant. I talked to her, she too looks normal. Of course, her hubby seems to be a suitable match for her. But what about her being a mother, who isn’t that healthy herself? I doubt that she’ll give birth to a healthy baby.

I was tempted to put my views, but I restrained myself thinking that now that she was in an irreversible process, any negative comments would only hurt her.

I’ve come to agree with the view that either the economically higher or the lower class of the society can make free decisions about themselves. The middle class people, and the newly rich ones, who are the people I’m related to – I’ve started disliking their lifestyle and passivity.

Earlier I used to think that it was my shyness that was preventing me to socialize with them, but, nowadays I’ve come to the conclusion it’s the disagreement with their painfully ritualistic lifestyles and their impotency to rebel or live life in their own terms that puts me at odds with them.

I do not claim to have enjoyed my life better than others. Yet I feel proud to realize that I do not belong to the herd. Of course, I have encountered more difficulties and earned more criticism than the so-called ‘social’ people, to the extent that I was on the verge of collapsing once.

Still, I’ve recovered, and I feel that I’ve come out a winner! A very positive attitude is developing – goodwill and pity for others, and a stubborn conviction on living life in own terms. No Compromise, whatever…!

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‘One does not write for slaves…’

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on January 8, 2008
Posted in: creative writing, ethics, freedom, gender issues, memoirs, nepal, observations, parenting, society. 1 Comment

 Contd from ‘Marriage is a private affair’

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Monday, June 12, 2006

The girl’s mother, brother, and middle sister came yesterday. How quickly they finished everything. Just Now the mother was telling another woman that everyone praised it, noone said it was not good. The women said,” How can one say anything? One can not say either good or bad.”

That day I was tempted to advise them not to hurry on the matters of the daughter’s marriage. But my experience with my cousin’s marriage perhaps had made me wiser not to comment anything in other’s matters.

More importantly, in case of arranged marriage sorted out by the parents only – isn’t there a greater risk of dissatisfaction later? No girl is trained nowadays to revere her man like the god; the feminist approach of teaching and learning has instilled a different value on man-woman relationship. The guardians feel so much pressure for their grown-up girls that they find it better to make the decision as soon as possible.

It’s strange that everyone is worried about their false-prestige, while in fact, none has any prestige at all. I can understand these things, as I myself was caught in such foolish cycle once. What’s the solution then? Finding a suitable mate should the resposibilty of the individual, just like finding a suitable career.

If in case, the boy or the girl has made his/her career, and wants to settle down and still hasn’t found a mate, then others, including the parents, may come to help. The girls, too, should take active role in the decision of their marriage, rather than later cursing their guardians later when they are not satisfied.

One day, in our class, a teacher was discussing on a feminist writer, Simon de Beauvre. Nowadays, I commented, males are more interested in women’s liberation than the females themselves, at least while giving sermons. The females only wail, that they are not treated equally.

He said that, though scientifically it has been proved that females can do everything the males can do, still men are oppressing the women in the society. He asked why the most philosophers, writers, and scientists of the past are only males. Why don’t men give equal opportunity to the women?I discussed with the teacher fiercely. My point was it’s the women themselves, who are responsible for their suffering, especially the educated ones. I asked him why men should give their power to others. If the women are really capable, they should fight for their cause and snatch the power from the men.

He said to me, “your values are very orthodox, you’ll learn later when you finish the course.” We friends laughed at this remark he made, we, some senior students have classified some teachers as bhai(kid) sirs! Unless the oppressed people themselves, whether black, ethnic, or the women, instead of cursing the oppressor, fight for their rights and be ready to suffer for the price of dignity, there can be no true liberation.

In this regard I agree with the Maoists that sometimes one has to take up a weapon to assert one’s rights. Of course, the Maoists, made a grave ideological mistake by taking up arms for retaliation and personal vengeance. And we can use anything as a weapon for our self-defence, not only the arms.

Jean Paul Sarte, the great existentialist philosopher and writer in his essay “Why Write?”, holds the view: “ One does not write for slaves…it is not enough to defend them with the pen. A day comes when the pen is forced to stop, and the writer must then take up arms.”

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Marriage is a private affair

Posted by His Holiness Divas the Blogger on January 4, 2008
Posted in: gender issues, literary criticism, memoirs, nepal, observations, parenting, professions, psychology, society. 3 Comments

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 A day in 2006

In fact, this is a story of a girl who lived with us indoors – we know about her, and her family almost as well as they know about themselves. We were looking for a dera, and providence sent us here. Two rooms, one of which is the size of a kitchen, were for us, the rest rooms were for them, in the ground floor. Since there is a single bathroom attached inside, we can not avoid each other’s company. The father, mom, son, a daughter, and a small girl of eight – who calls me a ‘chimpanzee uncle’ – from their first daughter whose husband has been to the gulf for obvious reasons.These lines wouldn’t have been written, had there not been a life changing incident. Not for us, but for the girl.

There came a proposal for her, which like almost all parents, they happily accepted. She has already completed her plus two, waiting for the result. The most amazing thing was that she did not say a single word in opposition. I was expecting a bellowing cry from her that she wants to complete her MA or, at least, BA before marriage, etc … but nothing happened of that sort. On the contrary, she was laughing while washing clothes yesterday when her bro made a funny remark that it was her last washing in their family. Today she is going to her hometown in the terai with her father and mom.

The fixing of her marriage was told to me by my cousin. He happened to hear the unavoidable talks next room – which is just a door’s distance. I teased him, “so lost another opportunity, I’d been telling you to marry her, and you didn’t care. Now, you lost her.” He retorted back, “so why didn’t u do then,…” I told him that I ‘d marry a foreigner only, and after all, I’d a generation gap with her age…Besides, her father is so naggingly talkative that no one would like to make him a father-in-law.

I heard her only brother, three years elder, somewhat not satisfied with the hurry the parents were in. “After all, it’s her life… etc” This guy is the only reasonable person in their family. Eight years younger to me, he is an energetic bread-and-other-things-winner for the family. Earns more than 25,000 from school and tuitions – an envious earning for a ‘kid’ of his age and profession. But he, too, could not go against his parents’ decision – another surprise.

I’ve nothing to do with her marriage, or whether she’ll get along with that Danthe or not. I can’t say that she is sad. She looks normal. Her middle sis has a querulous boy of three, and, still she is doing her Bachelor in Pharmacy – something I couldn’t do – bosses around everywhere, including her parents and that fool called her hubby.

No one can plan the future exactly – it’s only a guess – since everything in the world keeps on changing. Yet I find it odd that any educated girl from a Brahmin origin would be willing to marry a policeman – unless she is in love with one. Her to-be-hubby is a Sub Inspector. I suspect that her father, who is a sly person, is knowingly marrying her with a policeman working in the PM’s Office, for his own ‘practical’ reason – not for the girl. Once I’d heard him saying that what a person all wants is sex.It’s not even that I am undermining the boy or his profession. It’s the system of marriage, that I really hate.

The more I think upon it, I’m becoming surer of Chninua Achebe’s remark that ‘Marriage is a private Affair.’Meanwhile, perhaps, better for us, there seems another party in the offing!

(to be contd)

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आमाबुवामा समर्पण गर्छु:नेपाल

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यो पुस्तक आमाबुवामा समर्पण गर्छु: जसले शिछ्यालाई प्रेम गर्न,जीवनमा जोखिम लिन,आफूमा विश्वास गर्न, र अरूको सेवा गर्न सिकाए – जन उड

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The Top 5 Myths About the Fourth of July

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